In your opinion, what traits do you think men should focus on when it comes to masculinity?

[anon123th]

Men are constantly told that the following make them masculine, money, power, women, muscles, height, a big "tool", etc. What are some traits that should be talked about more often when it comes to masculinity.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Lets see, I don't care about height as long as he is taller than me. I married a guy who was 5'9 and I don't want a big dick.

I also don't care about money, as I always make more than any man I've ever been with.

What I care about is stability, if he has a job he has been at for along time. I don't care if he isn't making much, as long as he is stable.

Not overloaded in debt and doesn't have a bad credit score, as that shows he isn't responsible.

I don't want to be taking care of him, he needs to be self sufficient and living on his own.

[MzAsh]

Emotional regulation
Listening and communication skills
Understanding that leadership is about service to others, not lording over those you wish to control and manipulate.

[Still-alive]

yes they do.

and in my experience they don't care much about dick size.

they care about height but only if they are taller than them. they dont have to be 6 feet or taller.

Money they only care if the guy is making his own and hopefully is independent. thats about the extent of it.

These are things I observed.

[ta-ra]

For me it's the confidence. The charm. The knowledge that he knows he is a man. The guy who is mature, level headed, a gentlemen but fuck around and find out type of guy. A role model, works for what he wants and knows what he wants and doesn't let stupid shit shake him off his goals.

[Anonymous]

So you're a short, poor guy with a tiny cock and you're rather bitter about it. Don't assume those things are why you're single. It's obvious there are many other reasons why.

[Anonymous Asker]

And you used those traits to try and "shame" me lol. So it's obvious where you stand

[Nikki1989]

I worry that men on g@g can't read. If they could, they would know that most women don't care about any of this garbage, and they would stop posting pointless questions.

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, I care about his health, well-being, and personality

[OatmealMuffin]

No, that about sums it up.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[LiamJHayden]

No, they don't. Probably best if you and others of like mind just ignore them and let me deal with them 🤣🤣🤣

[DarkLegacy]

They want men with unnecessary huge muscles as well

[boggboss]

If they want a long term relationship yes

[In_Trance]

Nope