Why would a guy take 2 days to respond to your text?

[Anonymous]

Then he responds “sorry super busy “ proceeds to answer last message like nothing happened

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

He's playing stupid mind games. It doesn't take 48 hours to respond to a text.

A few hours is understandable if he was "super busy" but not 48 hours.

[Booklover_90]

He’s probably busy with work and/or life in general. At least he apologized.

[Asker]

Busy in between somebody legs

[Asker]

He is a software developer so maybe but still

[Booklover_90]

You’re jumping to conclusions. Plus, you only recently meet this guy, right?

[laly520]

not interested n u aren't one of his priorities

[Abbycado]

For real? He said he was busy. Ffs 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

Ffs mean? I’m sorry

[Danny_dan92]

For fuck sake.

[Asker]

Oh thanks

[Danny_dan92]

If it’s that long he’s not actually interested.

[Asker]

We went on a date but he kind of ghosted after and he said he was scared to sleep with me because I’ll be crazier

[Danny_dan92]

Lol wtf? Yeah he’s not interested

[Asker]

Then why tf he asks me on a date? What was the purpose if I was going to get disrespected

[Danny_dan92]

That I don’t know. Just stop talking to him. Problem solved

[Asker]

He kinda ghosted me after so..

[Danny_dan92]

Well there you go

[Asker]

My question is why waste my time if you knew you weren’t interested… why make someone feel like shit just because you don’t want them

[Danny_dan92]

Changed his mind. Due to any reason

[Asker]

But there’s other ways to go about it. If it’s about sex then that’s not fair because I told him day one I wasn’t looking for sex…

[Danny_dan92]

So that’s what it was

[Asker]

Maybe I really don’t know

Maybe he wasn’t attracted to me.. bad date… it’s just hard to let go of

[Danny_dan92]

Only hard because you’re letting it be

[Asker]

Okay? Nobody wants to feel like shit. He did give me closure but fuck him… I still wasn’t a priority… he didn’t want to invest if we weren’t going to have sex eventually and he said he has higher priorities to worry about

[Danny_dan92]

Life is not perfect. You’re letting it bring you down. This happening doesn’t affect other aspects of your life right? Rejection is nothing

[Asker]

It has affected me… I’m depressed… you just really don’t fully understand why I’m hurt by this.. it’s hard to explain.

But I wanted to be with him.. there’s just something about him.

[Danny_dan92]

I was fucken heartbroken by a girl that I was actually in a relationship with and promised her I would use the money I got from my deployment to buy her an engagement ring. And she broke up with me as soon as I left the country….

This is nothing. I sound like an asshole but honestly this is nothing

[Asker]

To you!

But for someone who is 26 never had a relationship or first kiss ect…

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe you pick the wrong guys…

Also, I’m saying this cause legit. If you think THIS is bad, if you have actually gotten in a relationship when you invest time, money, effort, feelings over… and they do you wrong. I can promise you that will fuck you up much much more than something like this.

[Asker]

Well it’s okay. I’m gay now

[Danny_dan92]

I’m sorry?

[Asker]

I don’t want to date guys they hurt you

[Danny_dan92]

Ah, pussy is great

[Asker]

Ew I’m not doing all that

[Danny_dan92]

Uhh… ok

[jahaims]

He told you dumbass. He was super busy.