Should I be worried if a guy calls my girlfriend princessa or mamas?

[themayer]

so my girlfriend met this guy about 2 weeks ago and she tells me that he calls her these pet names and that its normal in the mexican community for people to call other woman these names. i just dont know if i should be worried or if im just overthinking it

[liggang]

Hispanic people do do that. They call every woman "mama" and every guy "papa." And other pet names like that.

[themayer]

so its something i shouldn't be worried about as her boyfriend?

[liggang]

Probably not. But hey if she's cute it doesn't matter, there's dudes everywhere flirting constantly.

[SolitarySolace]

I’d be worried. Hell, I’d dump her ass immediately. I’ve been cheated on so many times I wouldn’t hesitate to end things

[laly520]

doesn't seem ok to me
she is ur girlfriend not his
him calling her that is disrespectful to ur guys relationship

[Nikki1989]

It is totally fine unless the culture you live in has a problem with it.

[themayer]

alright thank you

[goebenbreslau]

i cannot understand how you westoids let this kind of things happen

[Iron_Man]

don’t allow that talk to your girlfriend

[themayer]

i have and she told me not to worry about it

[Iron_Man]

That’s unacceptable. Don’t put up with that.

[Iron_Man]

Why is she meeting a guy two weeks ago? This is a big red flag.

[themayer]

i dont know what to do

[Iron_Man]

This sounds like a deal killer to me. You tell her not to talk to the guy anymore if she doesn’t listen then leave.

[themayer]

i have told her not to talk to her and she doesn't listen

[Iron_Man]

It’s a guy right not a her? You give her one last final warning if she doesn’t listen, then leave the relationship and find a girl that’s Loyal

[themayer]

its a guy

[Iron_Man]

Give her one last chance let her know you’re very serious and you’re not kidding around

[themayer]

isn't that being toxic?

[Iron_Man]

Was being toxic you’re being taken advantage of and disrespected that’s what’s toxic

[themayer]

hmm ok

[Agagagagaga]

@themayer Dude she clearly doesn’t respect your boundaries. And the mere fact that she says that it’s a “Mexican thing” shows that she has a relationship with this guy that YOU don’t have.

So they have little names for each other, they are hanging out, you’ve made your disapproval known, and she’s basically told you to just go pound sand and accept it.

Does that seem like a good girlfriend to you? Hell, does it seem like a girlfriend at all?

@Iron_Man Is right. Drop this woman. I wouldn’t give her another chance. Why? Because you told her your boundaries and she didn’t give a damn.

There are other women, man. There ARE other women.

[Iron_Man]

@Agagagagaga Thanks for that 👍🏻