If guy takes 4-5 minutes to respond my each text at night does it mean he is chatting with other girls too?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

Four to five minutes? Wow. That isn't long. That also doesn't mean anything about him talking to other girls. First thing is that guys in general aren't really good with texting. Not all of them are like that but most. I have some guy friends that I will be lucky to hear back from in the same day. Doesn't mean a thing. 4-5 minutes though? Uh you are really overthinkinig things and blowing that out of proportion. That is nothing. He isn't glued to his phone is what that tells me and that you are. Have some patience or you are going to drive this guy crazy.

[Asker]

If i take even two or three minutes to reply he asks me “whom are u chatting with”. He always doubts me. But yesterday when i asked him same that why he takes longer time to reply he said “ i am like this what will u do”

[_Maya_]

That is very insecure of him and hypocritical.

[Avicenna]

Maybe, but you have to assume he's talking to other girls if he isn't in an exclusive relationship.

[Asker]

Ok. If i take even two or three minutes to reply he asks me “whom are u chatting with”. He always doubts me. But yesterday when i asked him same that why he takes longer time to reply he said “ i am like this what will u do”

[Avicenna]

Well, if you know you're talking to multiple people, you probably assume others are as well.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

he probably has a life and isn't permanently on his phone

[handsomelad70]

Not necessarily, but he may.

[jahaims]

Holy shit you are needy

[Anonymous]

Yess