However, every time one of them would say something funny and I would laugh, he would get overly touchy— bear hugs, wrapping himself around me, kissing me, a lot of touching. It made me a bit uncomfortable and I think it made his brothers uncomfortable too. Very territorial which I think is unnecessary given that they’re his family.
He has never acted like this and I don’t know how to tell him that I didn’t like that. I’m not a very touchy person in front of others in the first place— maybe a hand hold or occasional kiss, but this was a lot.
Why was he doing this? How can I speak to him about this without hurting his feelings? Is this a red flag?
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