Why would someone randomly start fights with you?

[Anonymous]

Girl or guy. Examples?

[V_Injector]

Some people seemingly are drawn to drama. It's what they do to make things interesting... they're bored basically. Possibly annoyed as well, because you're being a source of boredom for them.

These people highly rely on social things to stay entertained. And if nothing is going on, or you spent a little too much 1 on 1 time with them and nothing popped off, they'll spice it up with almost retarded like drama (AKA picking fights for no reason... well, no real reason that was needed). You find new friends or start doing something amazing on your own and they are the same ones that will come back around like, "Hey! What you got going on here? I want in!" It's like attention deficit disorder that never gets diagnosed because they don't really have problems achieving things when they set their minds to it. Yet there may be a proclivity to get bored with something quick... especially if it's just safe and boring despite being 100% safe... or because it's 100% safe... if that makes sense.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Boredom and drunkenness in my case. Only with guys though and ones even or larger in size than me.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I actually want to be defeated. I don't pick fights with guys I think I can beat. I only pick it with those with whom I'm almost certain I will lose. I really enjoy losing a fight. I got some bruise pictures from last time when I picked fight with a Karate black belt over a head taller than me.

We became friends after and I really enjoy it. I mean not the bruises and collapsed lung but I enjoy testing myself this way against bigger and bigger challenges. It gives me a sense of place and what I need to work on.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

It's very similar to skateboarding for me (I'm a lifelong vert skater). The whole challenge of learning new tricks on vert skateboard is learning to endure bigger and bigger amounts of pain. Your body tells you when you take a hard slam that you're not supposed to do this ever again, but you do this anyway. And fighting is similar to me. I really enjoy it even though laws make it impractical for me to do it so often.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't understand why laws criminalize this way. It is so annoying when I have a good fight with someone else and police intervene and we have to spend overnight in jail. The police are making this worse. This is diplomacy. So I think we need a formal way to fight each other that is acceptable and legal. It is healthy!

[DishLady]

Some people fight before they part so they don’t miss one another too much. It sounds absolutely stupid and ridiculous, but I’ve seen it happen over and over again. It’s toxic and shouldn’t be permitted. If you find someone doing this to you, be up front about not accepting toxic cycles and form a new positive cycle.

[Knightwatch27]

Physical fights? No idea whatsoever. Maybe they are easily offended shady people who thought I looked at them funny or something.

[The_Sexpert]

Physical or verbal?

[Asker]

It starts verbally. It's mostly verbal. I had some girls verbally attack me and they looked like they wanted to fight. I had no idea who they were

[The_Sexpert]

So they were strangers?

[The_Sexpert]

To you

[Asker]

Yes.

[dustybiker2]

Jealousy

[Asker]

Why would a guy be jealous of a girl?
I can see why a girl would be jealous of a girl

[dustybiker2]

On famous example. Prince Charles was incredibly jealous of his wife at the time Princess Diana. Zero reason to be. But couldn't stand she was more popular than he was.

[Asker]

Cringing what the heck

[In_Trance]

boredom