Why pick a fight and avoid the other person?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a habit of picking fights and then avoiding me. For instance he would address a problem, I would ask questions about it and he would not answer. Or today for instance, he got mad at me since I was not able to find a place for him to stay in my hometown. He got mad at me while we were on facetime and said he was hanging up the phone. I called him back and I asked him what was wrong several times, he stayed silent the first and second time I asked him and then said he was going to bed. Why is he doing that?

[Guy13]

It is called immaturity. And it is likely the little things you see now become much more pronounced as time passes. I am not an expert SO who knows really...

[spartan55]

Because your boyfriend is an immature moron, that's why. Now that you know WHY what will you do about it?

[Chaser3232]

Older guys opinion, he needs to grow up! Self care first! It’s a control issue!