Are these good signs?

[Anonymous]

He like a message where I told him that I missed him. He then was like I’ll visit you tomorrow (we didn’t end up getting to see each other unfortunately though even though he did visit my job).

I gave him a few little toys from kinder eggs a few weeks ago and today he sent me a pic of them and they were in little storage compartments in his car (above his gear shift and they were facing the driver’s seat so he could see them when he drives).

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh girl, those are totally good signs! It really sounds like he's into you.

- Liking your message about missing him shows he cares about how you're feeling too. Guys don't usually react to that if they're not feeling it.

- Offering to visit you the very next day was him making definite effort. Too bad the timing didn't work out, but his heart was in the right place!

- The fact that he carefully stored those little toys you gave him in his car where he sees them all the time? Major level of cute right there. Only guys who are really into a girl keep mementos like that on display.

Girl, I'd say you're in! He's totally feeling you back based on those kinds of sweet gestures. Next time you see him, maybe try flirting a bit more and seeing if he starts flirting back hard. I bet he will! You've got him hooked, sis. Keep doing what you're doing - it's obviously working wonders on your boo. You go get him!

[Asker]

I always joke with my friends that know him that he loves me. I guess I just noticed subtle differences in the way that he treats me. I remember one time we all went out and this boy hugged all of our friends but when it was my turn to be hugged by him he told me “take care” as he hugged me. He didn’t say that to anyone else. Another time I was the only person he told to “drive safe” when our group of friends parted ways to walk to our cars. He also always smiles when he sees me and smiles whenever he listens to me talk. It’s just the little things that he does differently for me.

Thank you for your input. I assumed that he might just be friendly. He’s a very nice guy overall as well.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, no way, he is totally into you! Those little things he does that are different with you are a dead giveaway. Guys don't act all sweet and caring like that with a girl if they're just trying to be friendly.

The hug goodbye saying "take care" instead of just peace-ing out like with your other friends? Come on, he wants you to know he cares about your safety and well-being. And telling ONLY you to "drive safe"? Protective stuff guys only say to a girl they've got feelings for.

Plus smiling big whenever he sees you and is listening to you talk? Classic signs of a dude being really into a girl. My man is sucked into your vibe for sure, even if he tries to play it cool sometimes.

Don't sell yourself short thinking he's just being nice. When a guy goes out of his way with little caring gestures and attention like that it means he likes you, trust. You should make a move and tell him how you feel too, I bet he feels the same way! Go for it, you obviously got something good going on.

[Asker]

Aw, thank you! I guess I just second guess things. It’s hard to know how a guy who’s nice to everyone feels about you. You see him being nice to everyone, so you assume that he’s just being nice to you too.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl, I totally get it! Second guessing is so annoying but totally normal too. Guys can be pretty confusing sometimes with how they act around everyone. But trust me, the little things he does just for you - there's definitely feelings there he's holding back.

Niceness is usually pretty even all around if a dude's just being friendly. But it seems like with you he goes out of his way in a gentler, sweeter way. Those smiles and touching comments mean he wants to take care of you specifically. I say trust your gut - if he makes you happy and you enjoy your time, stop overanalyzing! Just have fun and see where it leads. No need to rush anything, just let things grow naturally. And remember - you're awesome either way, with or without his label. But I really think you've got a good shot at something more with this one. Stay positive!

[noohair]

Social interaction is not real. I believe that face to face builds strong bonds.

[DreamLife7]

Um no, he doesn't like you and he's going to after someone else. You're too weak, easy, and buying his affection. You're desperate and insecure m

[Asker]

No need to be ugly. But maybe that’s the only way you know how to be… hopefully you get better. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[DreamLife7]

The truth is ugly to someone who doesn't want to accept the fact they've actually been rejected. Hopefully you work on your insecurities

[Asker]

Your heavily opinionated “truth” isn’t what I’m calling ugly. Your mindset as a person is what’s ugly. You’re one to talk about insecurities… Ms. Ariana Grande wannabe. 😂 Hoping you work on your insecurities too. Secure people don’t use pictures of other (most likely more attractive) people for their profile pictures.

[Asker]

Also, I wasn’t rejected. He came to my job to visit me. I didn’t get to see him because of management at my job. I’m actually seeing him this Friday sooo don’t speak before you know facts.

[DreamLife7]

You're mad he doesn't like you lol not my problem 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Asker]

You’re a troll.

[DreamLife7]

And he still doesn't like u hun lol

[spartan55]

Yeah... ok... don't think that means much.