What's up with modern men? Would you revoke his man card? What would you say to this Cretin?

[RetroReviews]

I know of a 25-year-old male, he's married and has three kids. He and his wife both work full time. He feels that since he works he does not have to do anything around the house. he will not help at all. Like he will not even take out the trash or cut the grass. So everything is put on his wife. Cooking, paying the bills , taking care of the kids. I mean this POS was inside playing video games while his wife when she was 8 months pregnant was outside pushing a lawn mower cutting the grass. Also when going to get gas the wife is out pumping the gas while he sits in the car and plays on the phone. Another disturbing element is that no one in his family says anything to him about it so talk about enablers? What is up with these modern-day young men. From a guy that's Gen X I'm saying that's some BS, an unacceptable, I say revoke the man card! Men like this make me want to puke! Literally makes my skin crawl. Can't even call them men really it's like they're still little boys. But those are my thoughts what are yours oh yeah and another tidbit about him he's a driver for FedEx and he brags about how they kick around and throw and intentionally mistreat the packages and not only do not care but think it's funny. I mean the guy is literally a piece of shit... In my humble opinion but I'd like to know if you agree

[Chazmatazz269]

You’ve only shared negative things about the guy. Nobody is all bad. I’m curious if it’s motivated by antiquated beliefs about gender roles though. If i told you that i knew a couple who was very similar, except the lazy, selfish one was the woman, would you jump immediately to “POS”, or would you him and haw about what else she might be contributing?
Every relationship is give and take. Some give more than others and some take more than others. As long as they’re happy, i don’t know why you’d care at all, let alone so much. Are you related to her or do you want her for yourself, or something else?
For the record, the couple i referred to eventually divorced and her laziness and selfishness was a major factor. She claimed it was mental health issues, but refused to seek professional help. It also didn’t stop her from fighting for full custody. THAT is when i decided “POS”.

[RetroReviews]

I shared the FACTS and It wasn't all negative about him cuz I did say he works full time so I would say that is a positive the guy has a full-time job but everything else is as I said he feels he does not have to do anything including taking out trash or cutting grass. So the question is if a guy works full-time is that all he has to do or should he help out around the house? The wife works full time to. And no I don't want her for myself she's too young for me. But they are not happy they fight all the time and recently she has told him to get the F out cuz she can't do it anymore she's reaching her breaking point

[spartan55]

I agree with you 100% except I don't think it's necessarily a Gen Z thing. There are plenty of shitbags amongst us Xers too.

[Nikki1989]

There are a lot of shitty, weak men these days. I just came from a post where a guy was happily bragging he would never help a dying female. I hope this is not the future of manhood, if it is the world is truly screwed.

[RetroReviews]

Wow that's awful, so disgusting

[NetherlandsNar]

That seems like an outlier. Most men are not like that from my experience

[RetroReviews]

Well that's a good thing that most men are not like that because it's just very appalling to me. Even more disturbing though the young woman continues to put up with it

[Anonymous]

None of my business. I know what you’re talking about but obviously she chose to pick him knowing all this. That’s on her.

[sirderpsalot123]

I agree with you