Why do men hate women? Is the hate ever justified?

[CriticalCatDad]

[JacobJordan]

Most men do not hate women. Most men hate what women have become. They don't actually hate the person just what the person has become. Feminism, metoo, revealing clothes, promiscuity, gold digger, etc etc etc. None of these are good things nor have they been good things. However these things have lead women to behave in a manner that is unbecoming of a potential relationship partner. Which is why the rate of single women is sky rocketing.

[DarkLegacy]

Some women deserve hate especially feminists which is most women these days. With their sexism, hypocrisy, double standards, their preferences they deserve it.

[DarkLegacy]

Thanks for MHO

[DishLady]

First of all. I don't know where you get that men hate women... Physiologically, even when we're being odd in their eyes, they just wouldn't be able to help themselves. BUT society has messed with the values of what it is to be a man/woman and things have become confused. Women snap to the negative and offensive, so men race to the defensive -- I mean WHERE ELSE do you want them to go? So then it looks like guys are a defensive cranky lot, but really it's just a massive misunderstanding that's been simmering for ages.

[nevooo]

A lot of my hate stems from the internet honestly. I see women portrayed in a light that in reality probably isn’t realistic. A few times I’ve had situations in real life where I expected an outcome based off of what I’ve been fed, and the outcome was totally unexpected. The internet in my situation paints women as money hungry, large cock craving, beautiful perfect hairline 6 foot tall maniacs, but I think if I went out, I could find a nice girl that isn’t that at all, but now the way I think, I don’t see how I’ll be able to move past it enough to try.

[nevooo]

I worded it a little wrong, the internet paints women as money hungry, maniacs who want a 6 foot tall large cock muscular chad, is what I meant to say

[SotiCoto]

The most common cause for sweeping generalisations are other sweeping generalisations. So the most likely cause for men who hate women, generally speaking, is repeat encounters with women who openly hate men... or at least give the impression of doing so.

[BeetleBro2000]

Men hate individual women and groups of women for a whole lot of different reasons. Men only hate women as a whole because of sexism. There's never justification to hate a whole gender.

[CriticalCatDad]

"There's never justification to hate a whole gender"

Tell that to the women who consider themselves feminists

[BeetleBro2000]

Do you have any on hand? Is there one in the room with you? If so, just show her the screen. There's never justification to hate a whole gender.

[CriticalCatDad]

I don't associate with feminists in person the last time I did I was falsely accused and served an ex parte ppo. There are plenty on this site/app though. Even some male feminists too. I'm sure they'll find you on their own

[BeetleBro2000]

Okay, so I'll tell them if they ask me. Why did you ask me? If you hate feminists for personal reasons that isn't the same as hating a whole gender, and given your experience it's perfectly reasonable for you to hate them.

[CriticalCatDad]

There are more women who identity as feminists than those who identity as anti feminists. I don't trust women as a whole. They always tend to agree with the man-hating feminists hiding behind the idea of equality between the genders while overshadowing men's issues with women's issues while women are privileged in the US and UK. As long as they're considered a protected class I will hate them

[CriticalCatDad]

And I will hate them because they're privileged while playing the victim constantly. They're a protected class and can get away with falsely accusing men like me and yet I'm always told theyre supposed to be protected anyway? Its like protecting a murderer which women also are Killing babies in the womb

[BeetleBro2000]

Hating feminists and feminist sympathizers is different than hating women as a gender. Hating the systems that privilege them is also different. Not trusting women as a gender is very different. You can definitely not trust a whole gender without being sexist. I am the same way in that I don't trust one gender, but I don't hate them just because I don't trust them. Hate is different and needs much more justification than simple distrust or even fear. Fear is emotional, so you don't need a logical reason to fear a gender. You can have a logical reason, and I think we both do, but you don't need one.

[CriticalCatDad]

You can fear something to the point of hating it. That's how I feel about the female gender. Their privilege puts me at risk in more ways than one. Which is why I don't have any female friends. Which is why I avoid women outside of work. Feminists are the reason women have these privileges. Men are also the reason women have these privileges and I blame men jsut as much as I do women for my fear of women and women who know I fear them laugh in my face which would make anyone hate them

[CriticalCatDad]

And the ones who claim they feel bad for me because I fear women only come off as condescending

[CriticalCatDad]

Should I just start telling people I'm afraid of women instead of saying I hate them? Would that stop their behavior or not?

[BeetleBro2000]

I don't think you can fear something so much you hate it, unless you mean you hate being around them. That I definitely understand. It's been hard for me to make any male friends because of this, but I have made one that I trust. You do not have to trust anyone though, it's always a risk—especially if you've been hurt before. Avoiding women as much as you can is probably your best option unless things change, either in your environment, in a specific woman or group, or in yourself. Some people say you should see a therapist about fears that effect your life so much but honestly, i don't think a therapist can help much. When you already know what the problem is there's not really a point to having someone else tell you.

[CriticalCatDad]

People just aren't capable of understanding. Its frustrating knowing there's no one out there who can relate. But I guess that's just what being a man is all about. Dealing with your issues alone.

[BeetleBro2000]

People are a lot more understanding of fear than hate, yes, although they do tend to be more condescending about it. I think fear or distrust is more accurate to what you're describing, but I've only talked with you briefly. I could be wrong.

[CriticalCatDad]

Alright than from now on ill admit I fear women instead of hate them. People will still attack me and call me a baby and that women are more afraid of men than men are of women 🤷🏻‍♂️ as a man you're always kicked into the mud while being laughed at and no one ever actually cares

[CriticalCatDad]

Its no wonder the male suicide rate is as high as it is but no one talks about that

[BeetleBro2000]

It is a lot more isolating being a man than a woman. Finding even one or two people who can relate to you and you can talk to helps a lot, although daily life in public where you seem invisible can still be just as hard.

[Lessthanaveragr]

Well fur me it stems from growing up and my mom never saving me as my dad beat the shit it of me. Fast forward to the present, my girlfriend had cheated on me at least five times with FIVE different guys. Women have never been very did to me historically.

[Madlc]

Why would I hate women?

why generalize hate?

I hate some women or type of women but that doesn’t mean I hate women.

women complete us and we compete them.

yin yang ☯️

[CriticalCatDad]

A woman has never completed me and never will

[Siri137]

Most men, the vast and overwhelming majority, do not hate women. The ones who do are bitter and twisted, spoilt and entitled, ignorant and violent, and their opinions count for nought.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't hate women.

It can be justified to hate one or two, or even a few but it's never justified to hate the whole gender, seeing as there is no way you can know them all!

[bolverk]

Men do not 'hate' women - to be frank we've become indifferent to them and everything they've become.

[CriticalCatDad]

There are men who fear women and that fear easily translates into hate

[backdoorman]

Men don't hate women. Most men love women. But it's true there are certain kinds of women that the majority of men dislike.

[sirderpsalot123]

They had bad experiences with women, but hating women as a whole is never justified.

[CriticalCatDad]

Is it justifiable for women to hate men?

[sirderpsalot123]

Nope

[CriticalCatDad]

Good

[LiamJHayden]

I don't. It can be justified to despise individual women for their own actions.

[Jackblue]

It is wrong to hate all women. Hating a specific woman can be ok.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

For instance: They're more appealing to a man w/a Ring on, than without one!.

[MemeSupreme]

they're hurting

[normalice]

Men don't hate women.

[CriticalCatDad]

I do

[normalice]

You are but one. And I'm sure there are others. But it is not the natural state.

My guess is it has something to do with the way your father treated your mother,

[CriticalCatDad]

He treated my mother fine it was my mom who cheated on my dad and told him to his face that she simply didn't love him anymore around the time his dad died. He cried in my bedroom and I had to cheer my own dad up. So if anything I hate women because of my mom and then the women I was unfortunate enough to have relationships with and now because of women on this ridiculous feminist app

[normalice]

Most the mods are far right on this app.

But yeah, I don't know your mom's side of the story but it sounds like your dad didn't treat her like the narcissist that she was. It's important to remember that you take after her, too.

[CriticalCatDad]

How would you know the mods are far right? 🤣

[normalice]

The ones who interact with me are.

[CriticalCatDad]

Gee that must suck 🤣

[normalice]

Yup.

[RedInnocent69]

They don’t. I don’t. Quite the opposite, actually.

[CriticalCatDad]

What would the opposite be? And what do they do for you to make you feel that way?

[RedInnocent69]

That I love women. They look good, sound good, smell good, feel good, and taste good.

[CriticalCatDad]

Is all that worth being her slave? Ditching your own freedom to cater to a woman? Just because you like women doesn't mean she won't destroy your life if you say something she doesn't like.

[RedInnocent69]

I’m not. But tell us about how you got hurt.

[CriticalCatDad]

🤣 I've told many how and I've always been told the same thing. It's always my fault.