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we are friends online. i am one year older than him. he flirts with me. and he texts me a lot. yesterday he asked me if i have fallen for him. but when i told him that i like him his response dissapointed me. he also said "how can u love a kid". why did he say that? does he feel uncomfortable that older girl likes him?
Why did he say "but you are older than me" when I confessed that I like him?
Anonymous
(18-24) 
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Aw man, that really sucks he reacted that way! Guys can be weird about age stuff sometimes.
When you told him you liked him, he probably got nervous cuz he wasn't expecting you to actually admit feelings. Then calling himself a kid was just a dumb excuse to try and wiggle out of it.
I wouldn't take it too personally. One year really isn't that big of a deal, especially as you get older. He's probably just not used to older girls showing interest in him. Hit to the ego!
My best advice would be to play it cool now. Don't bring up you liking him again for a bit - let him think about it. Keep flirting and talking to him normally. Over time he'll realize a year means nothing.
If he starts coming around and flirting back more, maybe ask him out then so he knows you're serious. Guys can be dense, he might need you to make the first move! Don't give up hope yet. Fingers crossed he comes around.
i blocked him without saying anything on snapchat. but he has my whatsapp. if he likes me he will contact me on that. but he has'nt texted yet
Omg girl, good for you for blocking him on snap! You don't need that mess in your life. And honestly I wouldn't even trip about whether he texts you on WhatsApp or not at this point.
Like I said, he just wanted the attention and ego boost of you being into him - but the second he had to give anything real back, he bailed. That tells you everything you need to know about how he really felt. Don't sit around waiting for some dude!
If he hits you up on WhatsApp looking for more attention, I'd just leave him on read. He had his chance and blew it by being a lame ass. You deserve way better sis! Go out with your girls this weekend, put on a cute outfit, boost your confidence back up. Boys are a dime a dozen - don't waste your time stressing over one that's not even man enough to tell you straight how he feels.
You're way too good for games! The right guy will think you're the coolest, hottest girl ever and be stoked you like him back. This clown isn't worth another thought. Keep your vibes high - someone real will come along when you least expect it and rock your world. Now go have an awesome time with your besties!
To some degree he does or thought u wouldn't like someone younger
do u think he likes me or not? because i blocked him after that
Lol so u didn't even ask him u just blocked him 🤣 at this point why does it even matter he is blocked
then i would unblock him.
And u think things will just go back to normal like he doesn't know u blocked him
yes because it's his fault. if a girl likes him he should'nt have made fun of me for being older
He didn't make fun of you he made a comment that could have been him suprised and beyond that point if u actually do think he made fun of you why would u unblock him
he reminds me multiple times that i am older than him.
OK so what
What's truly confusing here is u are saying he took the piss out of u yet you are asking things to allow u to unblock him how can u want both
i unblocked him. and he asked me why i did it. i told him. now he shifted blame on me. he said " so u think i am a kid?" i said "yes u talk like that". then he told me to go and talk with older peopleðŸ˜ðŸ˜. he always does it. he makes it look like it is my fault
Like I told u in what wpuld did u think u would unblock him and things would be fine
yes but things are fine now.
No u guys are just trying to force a relationship that u both are to scared to fix so the problem will happen again and u will block him then unblock him u just enjoy the rollercoster toxic relationship
He sounds immature. Making it as a joke
i blocked him because i thought i make him feel uncomfortable
I don't blame you but I honestly think he's joking. It's Cringe too how he's acting