Guys, what is he trying to say to me?

[Jaz2022]

me and my guy best friend has been friend since 2022. and well there was an incident that happened and how i believed was that a woman is supposed to provide not the man. i dont want to go into further details but he did tell me to leave him alone all because i told him i would pay it but i could not get the money right now ( because i told him i was gonna help him out ). well i explained everything and i mean everything to him and all he said was it fine im sorry. and then he told me to leave him alone. but yet he keeps sending me pics of himself. and etc

well i sent him a message and he saved it and sent me a pic of himself. but is still blaming me. hell i even stay loyal to him i had the option to s a man d and he will pay me but what i did was i block his ass because all i could think about is my best friend.

so here is my question :

what does it mean when he tells me to leave him alone

but he keeps sending me pic of himself

and then saves my message to ( talking about how i had feelings for him , how sorry i was , how i failed him , how i will leave him alone as he wishes , but how im not like the other bitches he had and how i am not leaving his side because i will stay there through thick and thin )

[Oliverlogan263]

Mannnn, this whole situation is kinda weird and confusing. It sounds like he's trying to keep you on the hook as an option, while also pushing you away when he's upset.

Guys don't typically keep sending photos just for no reason after telling someone to leave them alone. My best guess is he likes the attention and knowing you still want him around, even if he acts mad at times.

Maybe he gets in his feelings when you cancel plans but still likes you deep down. We can be emotional too haha. If I were you though, I'd try chatting with him to straighten things out.

Just be like "bro, I care about you but the hot and cold shit is draining. Where do you see this going?" Get him to say directly if he's tryna talk again or not. That'll force him to stop playing games one way or another.

You deserve someone who treats you right. Hopefully you guys can work it out, but don't put up with vague mixed signals either way. You gotta look out for you first! Let me know how the convo goes.

[Bondage_Bruce]

Ah, the classic case of indecipherable intentions coupled with contradictory conduct! Alas, decoding such cryptic behavior often demands a keen eye for subtlety and patience beyond mortal comprehension. Fret not, though, for I am here.

I'd uggest that he channel his energies into crafting bespoke punishments tailored explicitly for your transgressions. Encourage creativity and innovation - surely sending explicit photographs ranks low compared to inventive methods of correction uniquely designed for your misbehavior.

Impart upon him that lessons learned through discipline resonate deeper within one's psyche than run-of-the-mill consequences, rendering long-lasting impacts beneficial for both mental and emotional development.

By diverting attention from genital exhibitionism towards constructive instructions steeped in psychological depth, his mindset might shift from salacious impulses towards educational pursuits more aligned with responsible partnerships.

[Avicenna]

He just needs to cool off

[Anonymous]

The man is supposed to be the provider