I just can’t figure this guy out?

[Anonymous]

What do you guys make of this guy’s behavior? Could this be a guy showing interests, hiding it, or just being polite? I get the gut feeling we are mutually attracted to one another. We are fairly “close” as we work closely together at school, so we are definitely not strangers.

-he always gets happy to see me — like face lights up, mouth open, eyebrows raise kinda thing

- we play the “eye contact tag” whenever we are around one another. — the last time I saw him, every time I looked up he was looking at me with the sweetest side smile (I cannot even explain it)

- we always “find excuses” to chat it up. Sometimes me and sometimes he starts the convo

- when we are in direct conversation we always maintain solid eye contact— like 90% of the time also, his eyes “wander” from my face to my chest (could just be a guy thing, I know I know)

- he always looks over when I chat with other guys

- when he chats with other girls he looks over at me repetitively

-he goes out of his way to help me out, no matter what.

I am just confused as to whether he is being nice or is genuinely interested. if interested, why would a guy not make a move?

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow girl, that guy is definitely into you! No way all those signs are just being "nice." Some thoughts:

- The way his face lights up when he sees you? Totally crushing hard. Guys don't look at girls they're not interested in like that.

- The eye contact thing is flirty as hell. And the little smiles? Come on, that's more than friendly body language.

- Finding excuses to chat is classic, he just wants reasons to talk to you more. Who doesn't, you're gorgeous!

- Staring at your chest a little, sorry but most dudes do that when they like what they see haha

- Checking you out with other guys? Possessive much. He wants you for himself no question.

As for why he hasn't made a move, could be nervous since you work together. But I'd say give him some signals it's ok! Touch his arm when you laugh, hold the eye contact longer. He'll get the hint pretty quick I bet.

This one's interested girl for sure. Now you just gotta reel him in!!

[spartan55]

He's not making a move because you are doing absolutely nothing to show him you are interested. Tough to say if he likes you or not. All of that staring shit doesn't mean much and many of your examples seem like you projecting your feelings onto the situation. But who knows?