Why would a man want to intentionally hurt you after telling him that you are protecting your emotional and mental wellbeing?

[Anonymous]

I tell him that and he asks if I’m sensitive and he goes on and attempts to make me feel safe just for him to hurt me in the end…. And I also suspect that he may have a gf….

But why hurt someone who is telling you and begging you in the beginning to not hurt her and that she’s not even looking for anything… but you smarty play her and do mixed messaging

Sometimes I wish I didn’t exist

[kareenakapur]

because if you say ur not looking for anything, he's thinking well im not looking for anything either just trynna either get emotional support or if u sent nudes or sexted then sexual support. Girl I feel you sometimes I wish I didn't exist too. I'm certified lover girl. I get hella led on. I assume this just happened recently. My ex broke up with me 2.5 months ago. I felt so sad and alone. I wanted to die. Cried so so much. But just know that no guy is worth that. You are one step closer to the guy who deserves it all and wants to give you it all. it still hurts some days but most days I feel fine I feel great. I'm way hotter than him nicer than him and better off without him. I also had another guy lead me on and he had a girlfriend. We made out and during the make out sess he took out his dick. I was like nah can u put it back in. Then he's like oh I shouldn't be doing this I have a girlfriend. He says AFTER i rejected his dick. You will find better girly. It will hurt like hell but it will be better one day soon. I promise you. Cry it out today. But tomorrow and each day will get better. Some days will randomly hit you harder and that's ok. Healing takes time <3

[Asker]

We weren’t even a couple and this was 6 months ago… it’s really hard to explain but I do feel like he either found someone else or he felt he could do better… I admit that I was guarded in the beginning and we had a rocky start because of me… he claims he doesn’t like how things started off with us in the beginning…

But there’s just something about him I find hard to let go of… it wasn’t the rejection itself that hurt.. it was him not taking my feelings into consideration… especially when he knew that I’m a certain person trying to protect my emotional and mental well being… he also just lacked respect on our date… he said things like “ Im scared to sleep with you because you’ll be crazier or even saying something about the type of pics I post… it stung. Then he ghosted I was upset…. I sent him so many texts but then he did give closure

[jahaims]

He enjoys doing so