Boyfriend is playing "hard to get" and said its the "masculine thing to do". what the hell does that mean?

[Anonymous]

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Update: my original question was that he's saying he's playing hard to get because im assuming its from his past relationships (to which both financially drained him, lied to him, taking more child support from him) so is he playing hard to get because he's been hurt?

[Iron_Man]

He’s doing that to show you something so he can get something that he’s seeing from you that you’re not giving him maybe attention or something I don’t know

[HighValue]

Anyone that does that is too immature for a relationship.

[northerngal]

OK this is just my opinion but anyone who plays games like playing hard to get is always a major red flag for me.

[Anonymous]

Whether it's a man or a woman, mind games like playing hard to get are super childish and a big red flag.

[spartan55]

It means he's losing interest.

[Emanon25]

What’s hard to get?