Why do guys call girls dude?

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Im a girl why do guys call u dude or bro in conversation when they say they are attracted to u? like i ain't a dude or ur bro

roninzos · Accepted Answer

I've heard multiple vagina owners (yes, I have to use that phrase), just in the last few days express how ANY GUY who refers to them as a "female" is a RED FLAG. So... refer to them as girls... red flag. Females... red flag. Compliment them... red flag. Not enough attention... red flag. Not handsome enough... red flag. Not a good enough job... red flag. Not 6 feet... red flag. Has kids, doesn't have kids, older, creepy, pervy, bald, different accent, likes sports, doesn't want kids, doesn't like a certain animal, red flag, red flag, red flag, red flag, red flag, red flag. And yet they're the most "open minded, tolerant" group there is (according to them, of course. But White women smoking blunts listening to rap, calling guys "niggaz" and "bitches" is just SO classy and normal. Yeah, avoid U. S. women. They're a fungus. A good woman is the bedrock of a successful family. Don't look now, but U. S. society is a joke. Families dysfunctional. But hey, they've got what what they wanted. Avoid em entirely. They're walking hepatitis.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

dude doesn't mean "man" in every used case. just like "f*****" doesn't mean "homosexual" in every used case. it's used according to the relationship or the feelings associated with the word. not according to what the word actually means.

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

The bro threw me for a while. And I grew up with men. I was on the fence if it was better than "daddy"(which has it's own obvious meaning that I hate). Even threw that back once for reaction. It was a heck of a reaction. 😂 Now just used to it from some people. lol

DishLady · Accepted Answer

If I call someone “dude” or “bro” (either privately or publicly), it’s to get the “you’re my friend” message into his mind. If he answers “dude” or “bruh” (either publicly or privately) he’s either accepting the point or playfully mocking.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Because nowadays some of them are.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Just ask yourself which gender really gives a flying fuck about all these pronouns.

I am about to resort to just start calling women "bonus holes" like the extreme left wanted.

I've been bashed for saying "women, girls" and my favorite "chicks." So why try?

Only the bonus holes really care about it.

HawkPerception · Answer

I've never liked that way of speaking either. I tell my partners don't call me bro or dude. I'm not attracted to anyone that calls me bro or dude in the first place either. Slang is not an endearing way of speaking

strateguy632 · Answer

because it does not mean brother literal it is just casual. we see on tv say dude to gal so we copy

HaleyWalker · Answer

Well I mean I think you overthink the fuck out of it because I do the same shit 😹 you ain't special sorry to break it to you

Levin · Answer

Sort of like in the same way, in the sane years, we could say 'where no man has gone before' and know we included women in that.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Hahaha... ya dude an bro should be exclusive to the male side of things. A girl can't be a dude.

Kaylei2006 · Answer

Right, bruh, dude, yo, mommy, smh Friend zone evaluation time, u got less then a minute to get back on track, lol.

DarkOsiris · Answer

Sometimes its a slip if we're having a good time and I trust her. I'd purposefully use it to be funny or if I've already decided we're not going any further than friends.

RingOfFire · Answer

So they don't get sued for sexual harassment. These days you have to assume a person is trans so you don't go to prison for a hate crime .

LiamJHayden · Answer

Laziness? Some guys use that term for everyone.

tfan1 · Answer

Just like Kel Mitchell’s song on all that and good burger - I’m a dude, he’s a dude. She’s a dude. Cause we’re all dudes hey! 😛. Sorry couldn’t help myself

20yearsolder · Answer

I don't get that shit either, to me a dude is a male, a guy. Definitely not a woman

DrPepper12 · Answer

Dude, my girl calls her mom "Bruh" 😂 Seriously it's a linguistic crutch for the timid or anxious or dumb.

JacobJordan · Answer

Gender neutral term to show they see you as a friend. Don't be mad.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I have never called a girl dude. It just does not sound polite

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's just a nonsense word. Like "umm"

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

They're just filler words because it's part of our vocabulary and we use it all of the time. Don't think that much about it.

Dongie · Answer

I've done that and my favorite nephew does it. Helm'll even refer to his mom as dude , accidentally  of course. I have done so playing.

Anonymous · Answer

I only do it on here to guys that are obviously posing as women.

LiamS95 · Answer

Cause the guys that do that are a bit stupid and disrespectful.

clampfan101 · Answer

I only do in plural. I think when referring to a group it can refer to either/both genders.

hafinjun · Answer

What do you expect from someone who doesn't know how to wear a ball cap

AydenHazor · Answer

Some guys default to calling everyone dude regardless of gender

MatureMan40 · Answer

I don't know and I don't like to talk to a girl as if she was a man... Girl is girl and delicate!

dragoblack · Answer

Because "dude" has changed to being a gender-neutral phrase to mean "trusted person"

Nirmroth · Answer

Guess its just bec they used to it

MisterWack · Answer

Dude is a generic term to me.

jshm2 · Answer

Because you look like a butch lesbian?

WhitneySnow · Answer

To make it seem like they aren’t that into you

Lynn2001 · Answer

I call everybody dude

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

It's just a figure of speech

TriggeredPeen · Answer

No clue, always wondered that

sallyjoeseph · Answer

I don't know. Dudes are cowboys.

djcrazy76 · Answer

ITS JUST AN EXPRESSION LIKE, HEY MAN!!

Cheerfull009 · Answer

These are common names, not strange

whistlingwh0res · Answer

they are saying poop

MK1997 · Answer

I don't like it

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Dude wth man!

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

It's a habit

legalboxers · Answer

huh?

Anonymous · Answer

Dudets lol

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