Hi, I am training to be a server and the guy who trained me tonight (who was very kind to all our patrons and cute so of course I have a crush) at one point asked if I work tomorrow, not sure if he was just being friendly or flirting but also later on at the very end he looked at my training packet (which he did not have to do by the way he isn't a manager or anything) and he was saying he has a list I did not have in my packet back when he became a server, and he said it highlighted the steps of service. He said he would find it at home or if he could not find it he would type it up and text me it, he said "I'll get your number off hot schedules and send it to you" (hotschedules is our calendar for shifts and includes an employee directory) so that was around five pm today he has not yet texted me tonight, he works tomorrow and I do not so I am wondering if he is just being nice or if this is an excuse to get my number. He said at least three or four times how he is going to send it via text. Also, he fist bumps everyone hi and bye but he fist bumped me bye about 3 times and went out of his way on the last one on his way out the door because we kept saying bye and then crossing paths. Also at one point during out training he apologized for how busy it was and I said no that is not your fault you are a great coach and he smiled and said his other job is being a coach so I am wanting opinions of if he is just friendly or if that is a sign. Also, the steps of service thing he offered to send is totally not necessary lol it's like for someone who is starting to be a cashier writing out "step one smile at customer step two scan item" also he was saying "oh yeah I just kept practicing the steps of service on my girlfriend and mom" and when I heard girlfriend I thought uh oh then a second later someone behind him chimed in to say something and he said EX girlfriend I think he accidentally said girlfriend, just to throw that detail in there.
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You are overthinking everything here. I don't even what 'the sign' is that he may like you. Also, why are you thinking it's some big deal he has your phone number when it's available to ALL of your coworkers online?
The fact that he says he wants to text me something that is unecessary
And asking if I work tomorrow I normally don’t care who works what day unless I like them
Not yet but it doesn’t mean he isn’t going to! You sound very cynical or jaded for some reason
lol right as I was typing a reply he texted me asking if I’m free after he’s off work tomorrow to get dinner
Not really, I've just seen and been a part of countless situations like this and was attempting to show how guys think. You seem to think you know better for some reason.
Yeah, sure he did.
lol why would you doubt he did? such a weird assumption on your part, get help.
Don't need it. Be sure to update on how the date went...
oh but you do, you are acting like a toddler trying to argue w a stranger on the internet being condescending and sarcastic saying yeah sure he did because you are a miserable person and expect the worst of people. so weird.
Yeah, you’re aggressive as hell. Also we’re all anonymous on here unless your real name is spartan and that’s your real profile pic? Juvenile.