Would u be with an indian fob guy who makes at least 400k?

[kareenakapur]

this guy dm'd me on instagram. he's an Im doc trynna be a GI doc so will prob make over 400k. seems sweet. smart, a little cringy with the way he flirts but he's from India just moved to America and prob has an accent. he's not bad looking def not my type and he's 5 years older. he might have different cultural expectations for me. im indian but born here. would u be ok with a fob? I think the selling points are that we are same culture, religious sect, sweet guy, and going to provide good money.

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i dont like the term fob only used it for post engagement purposes FYI

[ProbablyClueless]

It sounds like you have a few reasons to not date that guy. You don't particularly find him attractive, you don't like the way he flirts, you have concerns about cultural expectations. In my experience, cultural expectations are extremely important in dating. Money isn't going to make up for those concerns. You'll probably start to resent him quite quickly.

You said you were born in America. Are you only interested in Indian men? Maybe you could find another American born Indian.

[kareenakapur]

yes but im also a particular religious sect and that's super hard to find. and im not sure if he has expectations. I've become super picky with attractiveness ever since my ex who was so freaking sexy. ruined it for all men. this guy is not baddd looking just he's older and you can tell he looks mature and dresses like a millennial

[ProbablyClueless]

Nothing wrong with that. If you can attract sexy; shoot for the moon. Only thing I would say is to make sure that you aren't just chasing a fantasy. It's impossible for any human to live up to a fantasy.

May I ask which religious sect?

[bowenw]

I suggest you get to know him to see if you are compatible.

[kareenakapur]

im trying so basically we matched on a dating app last year and he was boring and weird. now that im realizing it I think he just started his residency at that time so he was prob stressed. first thing he texted me was umm so how should we start? and i was so grossed out I like a man who takes the lead and knows how to

[bowenw]

He may be nervous with it being a new country and culture. Hopefully you will get to see his true nature after he has settled in.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Staximus]

That's like my friend's dad who was a Tejano (Texas Mexican) calling Mexicans from Mexico wetbacks.

[Iron_Man]

I’m straight. I wouldn’t date any female for money anyway