Why do some men give me dirty looks?

[Blondy_Gurl_1990]

Some men give me that dirty look when we make eye contact so i look away, they be staring at me first, the rest either have a poker face or a disgusted expression like that "ew" expression, for reference i'm an average blonde woman in her 30s, yesterday i was walking on a sidewalk and a man gave me one, when i nod to some they never return the nod they either ignore or just keep staring, i don't get it why do i get all this hate?

[Finchie40]

You look beautiful to me , from what I see on your profile picture , so why you are getting dirty looks is beyond me? the only thing that comes to mind and maybe the reason you are getting these dirty looks , is because you probably have a resting bitch face that you don’t realize you have. Making guys’ think that you are a stuck up bitch and that you are high maintenance girl. Sadly this world is filled with judgmental people and assholes that assume they know someone before actually getting to know that someone. It happens more than we like to think it does. Most people are jealous and insecure about attractive people , from what I can see, you are an attractive girl and sadly you are being judged for your attractiveness before someone actually got to know the real you. So if you have a resting bitch face that you are unaware of? That’s probably the reason you are getting dirty looks. It’s a messed up world we live in and sadly that’s how a lot of people see things and assume things. You ever hear the term, Don’t ever judge a book by its cover? If not , than this is something people should learn to live by , because this world is filled with judgmental people an assholes. My advice to you is just ignore them and focus on people that accept you for who you are , and distance yourself from the ones that don’t accept you for who you are. Not everyone on this planet is going to like us , so it’s best to let negative shit go in one ear out the other , unless you feel like opening a can of whoop ass lol When people talk shit about me or give me a negative attitude without even getting to know me first , I just smile and say thanks for noticing me , I am glad my presence meant a lot to you and walk away. Most people that talk shit about you are just jealous and insecure about you.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

I would need to see a picture of you to answer this question. Preferably, a full body picture of you standing up & smiling.

[DishLady]

Why would you nod at someone giving you a dirty look? (Don’t do it.)


There must be something you’re doing that’s prompting this reaction…. Perhaps you’re walking around with RBF without knowing it?


(Not to insult you, obvi, but I have a close friend whose go to resting face looks like she just dove into a wheel of stinky Camembert… Even when she is REALLY HAPPY she just looks like she smelled something bad.)


Check out your facial expressions in the mirror for a day or two and see what going on.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's how you conduct yourself. Your profile pic for example gives me mildly bad vibes.

[Blondy_Gurl_1990]

Whats bad about it?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know that’s weird. You don’t get any smiles.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe it's all in your head

[DryGermanGuy]

It is, the usual overthinking. 🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Some men just have a toxic vibe.