Guys, What's the big deal?

Question

A friend and I were chatting yesterday about how much more tortured guys seem to be about trying not to stare at "a nice rack" today than they were about avoiding the medieval torture rack... And, both being women, we wondered precisely why boobs are so unabashedly attractive to you lot. I mean, aesthetically, ok, I get the whole appeal of a bouncy curve here and there... it's feminine and all that. However I've literally seen guys loose their ability to think logically just because a woman leans over a little too much or has a little bit of a jiggle in her walk... So what's the big draw for you?

I'd get it if it was just a sexual thing, but clearly there's more to it. So have at it... (Keep the comments as clean as possible. I'm not asking for a diary entry about what gets you off, just your honest opinion about what the big draw is.)

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

I'd like to avoid saying it but in fact it is a purely sexual thing.

Womens' bodies are designed to induce men to have that certain physical reaction. It's instinct not logic. Men's brains and body chemistry are designed to see a certain body shape and details and have a reaction that is conducive to reproduction. That's nature and evolution.

Instinct cannot be explained in terms of logic. It just is. Men are sexually stimulated by the appearance of women's bodies. As I learned it in a biology class many many years ago, human women are the only animal species with swollen breasts and they were designed to sexually attract men to promote reproduction. It's part of the design of the human species. They are sort of an advertisement showing off fertility.

As a woman your brain and body wiring and chemistry is different from a man's, so you are not able to have the same physical stimulation or reaction to seeing breasts that men have. So you can appreciate the aesthetics, and maybe even a little bit of the exoticness, but it's not the same. Men experience an actual physical reaction and sexual stimulation from seeing a woman's breasts and the shape and details of her body parts.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

You know me being a logical thinker, I've wondered why too. Boobs are literally just blobs of fat with a tit on each of them. But you could technically use that logic for any part of a woman's body. Her butt is also just some fat and muscle in a specific shape. But you can definitely tell a man's butt from a woman's butt because their shapes are different and what men are attracted to. Their legs? Same thing. It's the shape of it. Their facial structure? The way they move?

All of what a woman is, is wired into men biologically to be attracted to. And certain shapes just better than others. I would say it's a mix on how healthy, fit, and how well her proportions look for giving birth that attract men, all in different ratios depending on the man.

I personally don't care about the size as much as the shape when it comes to boobs. I won't go into detail over my preference 😂

Finchie40 · Answer

Because boobs are something most of us guys’ don’t have , and they look amazing on a beautiful girl , most of us guys’ are very visual when we see a beautiful girl with a nice rack , we picture her naked in our arms and we picture her boobs in our mouths or bouncing while having sex with her. They are sexy to look at and sexy to touch with out hands and our mouths and our dicks as well. So that’s why we make a big deal about them. Most females’ find something on a guy , that she feels very attracted to so it goes both ways in a sense. I dated girls ‘ that loved my arms or loved my chest , or my eyes etc. , I had one girl love my arm pits as well lol so whatever floats her boat is all that matters. I prefer a girl with a nice set of tits and a nice ass , As well as a pretty face and eyes. and hair , I also like a girls’ sexy feet as well , even better if she is wearing sexy shoes. So that’s why most of us make a big deal about her boobs , I love sucking on a girls’ tits , it turns me on and it usually turns her on as well

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

It seems that miss dish is using her special 18+ vintage channels 🤣🤣

Well like i always say, a woman's boobs are sexual wether she say yes or no, it's true that their primary goal is to breastfeed the baby but are also used to entertain her husband sexually!

I'm not so much into a woman's boobs but ofc it makes me aroused if i see them half bare or more, but you know miss dish that i have control over myself, unlike a lot of other guys who doesn't...

Usually when a woman bend over a too much of her boobs are revealed, i turn my face or just take a peak, never focus on them like a wild predator who's focusing on it's prey in the jungles, these are private parts in a woman and i shouldn't look at them if they are revealed!

I can't stop myself from making a comment on this woman in the photo that you have uploaded, these were the times where men enjoyed real women, when a husband touches his wife backthen it was all natural 😌

This woman's husband came back home one day and he didn't find a delicious meal ready on the table and asked her: "where's my goddamn meal?" She said: "chill out ma' man i'm yo goddamn meal today" 😂😂

Look at the beauty miss dish, at least each woman had looked different not a copy/paste printed women!

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I find them beautiful, both the breasts and the cleavage. I like how soft and feminine they look. Although, I have to be attracted to her face and other features for it to draw my attention, it's not just the breasts that do it for me. Size doesn't matter, it's more so the whole package for me.

MicahRaine · Answer

Honestly, I don't think it's that boobs have such a big "draw" to them.

Don't get me wrong, I'm a total boob guy. But also I've always been able to keep my eyes up.

I think the reason so many guys glance/look/stare is simply that they lack basic respect and self-discipline.

Juxtapose · Answer

It's entirely sexual, cleavage even mimics how an ass looks. It's a sexual frontal display and because they are covered up a lot it makes men go crazy when they are revealed a bit.

A good looking rack is.. magical. It's a brain hack into the primitive part of men's brain. When I first saw breasts by accident, I felt like I was going to pass out and it felt like a damn spiritual experience. It was very intense and I haven't felt something like that since.

shadowowner · Answer

In today's society if a man points his eyeballs into the direction of breasts, he is labelled a sexist, rapist, misogynist. It's dangerous to look at boobs in 2024. It's dangerous to be attracted to women. A part of men not being able to think when a woman is half naked at a work meeting (because she's entitled to it, right?) is because god forbid our eyeball muscles want rest and our eyeballs fall below the horizon line, we get fired, shamed, humiliated and our social lives end.

Berethor · Answer

Isn't it a comedy trope? I support the free the nipple movement so for me it not big deal.

NathanDavis · Answer

virgins and immature guys... problem usually not a problem a man would have

SixFootSexy · Answer

Staring at women's breasts helps men live longer. It's science.

bananathunder · Answer

we are trained to like them as a kid and for some guys that probably grows into an obsession. I can appreciate a nice pair, but I can control myself lol

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Well. Honestly if I see a woman wearing a top that is purposely designed to show as much cleavage possible, I’m automatically going to think “she wants people to notice”

That being said. It depends on the context, in a professional setting I’ll glance once but that’s it.

However, if I go on a date and the woman is wearing a top like this. I will see her cleavage as more inviting (given the context of the situation)

Dongie · Answer

It's like being loud to the world in a subtle way. And when they notice you and speak, maybe lean in a bit that, that's what ties the tongue. They have you, you know it and you feel like everyone in the room knows it.

AviatorTom · Answer

Pinups from the past are sexy. Beautiful women in suggestive poses. Definitely causes a reaction.

JohnK123 · Answer

For me it’s like whoa I don’t have that so it’s just an extra curious mind on it since i don’t have a rack LOL. and they are nice to look at and ya I don't know

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Boobs just look good. That's all there is to is.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Biology. Racks evolved to look like ass to remind us of fucking. Not a coincidence that we break along being ass or tit guys.

dolemite58 · Answer

Who knows that’s like asking why water is wet. Women would be in deep trouble if men didn’t like boobs as much as we do though 🤣

RavVid · Answer

If it is on show I am entitled. What is the writing on the Tshirt for, if not to be read? I have no shame nor feel a need to have it.

DaBiggestBird · Answer

Maybe they remind them of mars and get excited because there is water there which reveals the possibility that xenomorphs can live on Mars.

handsomelad70 · Answer

I ALWAYS gaze at a buxom lass' spuds !!!

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

We don't have them

Sabretooth · Answer

Just very sexually arousing.

QuietRunner · Answer

classic beauty

shortster · Answer

They are awesome

Anonymous · Answer

MeToo firing squads

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