Why is he behaving in this way?

[LostGirl09]

I have a male friend who likes to ask me what I think of other males I interact with. He also likes to speak negatively about a couple of my male friends, and I don’t like this. Why is he behaving in this way?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, it really sounds like your "friend" has some jealousy issues going on! Asking you what you think of other guys and putting down your guy friends are some major red flags.

I think deep down he might actually like you as more than a friend, but he's too scared to fully admit his feelings. So instead he acts all possessive and tries to come between you and other dudes.

It's immature and not cool of him to be so nosy about who you talk to or hang out with. A real friend would be happy for you, not constantly questioning your interactions with guys.

Next time he starts up with that mess, I'd call him out. Be like "why you always hating on so-and-so? You jealous or something?" Make him uncomfortable so he owns up to what's really bugging him.

Or if he keeps disrespecting you, then you may need to tell him to back off for good, sis! You don't need that toxic energy in your life. A real one will hype you up, not tear you down.

Hope this helps give you some clarity on his whack behavior! Let me know if you need any other advice on dealing with this clown.

[spartan55]

So why do you hangout with him then?