Signing off when I sign on?

[Anonymous]

Loooooook I get social media is weird, and not a reliable indicator but hear me out lol.

So, there is a guy I have been in contact with for a year (we have met before, not a catfish), and we had a MASSIVE spat - huge frankly, from mine and his side.

Since then, every time I sign on FB, I notice he signs off immediately. This has been going on for days, and I don't think it's a coincidence but who knows.

So is he avoiding me because he doesn't want to talk anymore, or his signing off is simply just a coincidence even though it's been happening for days, or something else?

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+1 y

okay I won't lie, help please

[midnightmoon05]

Because he likes to play games. Want to join him?

[Asker]

Could you elaborate further please?

[spartan55]

Those indicators for someone being online are wildly inaccurate. You understand that right?

[thomastown]

To make you crazy, that's all. You can make him crazy by not letting it bother you.

[Asker]

haha he doesn't know it bothers me

[DishLady]

He wants nothing to do with you. Don't bother him.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If he's that into games you're better off without him

[KelsoAlexander]

context of the argument?

[Asker]

I did something that crossed the boundaries (not sexual). His anger was valid for sure, but he retaliated with horrible words. I apologised twice as I seriously regretted my actions and well it's been 2 weeks since.

[KelsoAlexander]

what did you do that was that bad?

[Asker]

1. Adding a friend of his on social media. I hadn't met this friend before though, just thought they looked cool.
2. Asking to catch up over the phone, but guessed I asked to many times...

[Asker]

ps: I fully regret my actions, and apologised for it twice, and it is left on read. I guess time is needed, which is perfectly fair, but the log on/log off for daaays just feels too coincidental.

[KelsoAlexander]

then he's being extra about it if he doesn't text you back keep rolling on

[Asker]

Lol why doesn't he remove me lol. Although to be fair, it was very explosive and shit tons of tension, so I also thought more time is needed