Why do male teachers get nervous/awkward around female students?

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MLGbreezy · Accepted Answer

If I’m going to be honest they are probably scared. I saw some lady saying that the teachers are sexualizing minors? I’m not an condoning anything of that sort but bro I was standing outside of an urgent care not to long ago and the urgent care is located behind my old highschool I was waiting for my ride and ig school had let out. Tell me why I see three girls from the school all wearing those booty shorts that literally go up to you’re ass like literally they’re cheeks were almost poking out and they were all wearing crop tops too. Girls were not dressing like that when I
was in highschool yo wtf definitely we’re dressing revealing for the time yoga pants and flare pants where the big things that caused a bit of a stir cause those things accentuate all the curves. Point being if that’s what these teens are wearing I’m deeply concerned what parents doing bro why are girls in highschool sexualizing themselves. I’m not saying at that ages they can’t show a little skin I was in highschool once too I know the deal but this is kinda crazy not the first time I’ve seen it either from a distance you’d think it’s a grown woman wearing some of this stuff then you take a closer look and it’s a freakin kid. Even some of the other stuff I’ve seen seem of these kids have like sleeves in highschool by sleeves I mean tattoos. That cover the entirety of an arm. And some have full faces of make up too which to be fair my generation wasn’t much different but at lest it wasn’t all the girls Brian saw girl at my job with her parents couldn’t have been any older then 15 full face of make up. That’s crazy to me parents need to get there stuff together I feel like this got off topic. I’m not saying that these teachers are attracted to little kids but at the same time why are we deliberately at that dressing are children an sexually revealing clothing. Sending the wrong message to people if you ask me, there’s a reason we didn’t do it before why are we doing it now the whole progressive parenting thing is ruining the next generation I swear.

Surely · Accepted Answer

I was told by a DOT Employee that I should apply for a driver’s license examiner position. Since I hold several licenses and they needed people
The main reason I didn’t apply. I was worried that if I took a teenager or young person out for a road test and failed them. Maybe saying that they were not comfortable enough behind the wheel. They could say that I propositioned them and they refused. That is why I failed them. My life would have been ruined by someone lying about me. I just want a quite peaceful rest of my life without any turmoil in it!
Maybe the teachers have the same thoughts!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They don’t all do that but the ones who do that are usually crushing on one of their students, which can be innocent and can be very not innocent

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Because they're sexualizing minors and know its not ok

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I taught self defence classes for women a few years ago. I never got nervous. in fact the opposite was true. I was so pleased they picked up what I taught them so well I was confident around them.. it was a great group.

adventurous-1 · Answer

Seriously think about how easily a girl can get a male teacher in trouble, she may want to punish him for a bad grade or just because she enjoys inflecting false allegations and lies to cause unwarranted hardships because she thinks its funny and she's a cruel person. We've all heard about this happening time and time again. Why wouldn't that prospect keep a male teacher nervous and worried that someday that could happen to him. Girls are rarely punished for such acts and the teacher never fully recovers from the damage done when and/or if he's proven innocent.

Anonymous · Answer

Because from what we’ve seen as men women are the ones who are likely to make up accusations. Whether it’s about rape, domestic violence, etc. Easier to steer clear than to take a chance. What if he’s failing her. Maybe she accuses him of doing so because she tells law enforcement she rejected his advances. So he’s retaliating against her according to her. Even if it’s found to be untrue, he’s screwed. Just the same as some of these college ball players who lost their scholarships because a girl accuses them of something. I get that not all women are like that. But the fact is you don’t know which ones are like that. So best not to take a chance.

abc3643 · Answer

For the same reason Gordon Sumner was. He left teaching and became a rock star: Sting, the lead singer of The Police and very successful solo artist and occasional actor.

Lionman95 · Answer

Because they are concerned about not doing anything wrong that a female student could use against. Because if a female student reports a teacher for wrong behavior chances are low these days that the school board believes the male teacher´s story but instead they follow the female student version.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Because when my penis starts burning... I can't blame her in public without the back lash. <-- That was a joke... not really though.

They can accuse you of shit you didn't do... and they'll get away with it while it ruins your life. If you were me... in my 40's, I'm buff, looks like I'm 30 and a fitness model, would you? Would you risk it all to just be friendly with a chick or help her out when she can do so much damage? Lust isn't a factor anymore because... let us be real...

standardguy · Answer

Due to the fact that they are students and the teachers have studied the male is between ten to 50 years older. And younger females are sexual attractive for men as a biologic law. If the woman is minor then they are even at risk to show sexual interest, google to intensively or say a wrong sentence and then they are seen as pervert old man, p@dophile or just a man without self discipline. That would ruin their reputation as teacher or professor.

tfan1 · Answer

So many movies have given girls, young women the idea they have the power to control males. So much that they can make the move on the guy and if he doesn’t give into her bullying, she’ll cry sexual harassment etc and wreck his life. Then go on to the next guy.

molonski2 · Answer

They are scared shitless , of facing some form of ludicrous sexual charge for doing absolutely nothing wrong , while the student can pretty much do as she pleases , with attitude , innuendo , and attire.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Guilty conscience or just fear of false accusations.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Not here in our country. 😂 Almost all my male teachers are gay..

RavVid · Answer

Possibly because they recognize danger and know female students are quite capable of inventing 'events'. It is not unknown for female students to threaten male teachers in this way.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

only a few do... and some of them because of false accusations of sexual harassment

OfMiceandMen · Answer

He shouldn't if the female students are just asking run of the mill questions about school content. If they try to get personal, then I can see getting nervous/awkward.

normalice · Answer

Wanna bone but know we shouldn't. And even if we decided to, actually getting her to do it is a completely unrelated challenge.

OtterMan68 · Answer

FEAR! In this day and society where everything is filmed and can be edited to make an innocent situation look nefarious, male teachers are scared to death of being accused of wrong-doing with their female students.

Anonymous · Answer

Because savy women ruin lives. Something as simple as pointing out a dress code violation leads to her saying "Well why were YOU looking?" Thats it. Thats the end. That's a career and a life destroyed.

SpeedAnswerDemon · Answer

because they can ruin his fucking career with no proof. innocent until proven guilty my fuckin ass

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It happens, I never got a teacher crush maybe you have a crush on him, hard to say?

ProbablyClueless · Answer

There are LOTS of opportunities for misinterpretation in situations like that

SotiCoto · Answer

Because every girl in the class is an opportunity to get fired on false grounds.

Fireguy17 · Answer

it is all too easy today to be accuesed of anything.

Pete671 · Answer

In my case it was because I was trying to be non-sexual and avoid getting into risque conversations,

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because of false accusations of sexual misconduct. It's why I won't be alone with any woman who is not my wife.

Anonymous · Answer

Because the sociopolitical landscape for men in teaching positions in the West is terrifying.

MK1997 · Answer

Because they get lot of shit for being involved with them

Iron_Man · Answer

I’ve never seen that maybe there’s pressure

Dongie · Answer

Kez, where do you live that you have all these men afraid of a little pussy?

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

i was unaware of this? Are you saying that one of yours is, around you?

Anonymous · Answer

MeToo statutes  Life sentences and firing squads

Alli112 · Answer

The vast majority do not thankfully.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Lol, they don’t. What you may perceive as being nervous is more than likely something else.

ManInChains · Answer

Because of false accusations

HusamRocks · Answer

He might be getting weird vibes from u 🤔

katiesmuff · Answer

Never heard of that being an issue!

rachel776 · Answer

my male teachers were not shy with us girls

4ngelic · Answer

only pedophiles

stratford · Answer

Because they don't want to go to jail.

CieloAzul · Answer

Who told you this information. That’s very rare.

alice55 · Answer

They don't

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Anxiousness at getting accused or caught.

zombiewoof · Answer

They may be attracted to them

handsomelad70 · Answer

Guess.

Twalli · Answer

Most don't

Why do male teachers get nervous/awkward around female students?

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It happens, I never got a teacher crush maybe you have a crush on him, hard to say?

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