Why do I have that strange urge to claw a man's eyes when he keeps staring at my butt?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because you don’t want to be pointed out as a sex object, you want someone to like you for you , mainly from the heart , it makes you angry because you feel like you are just an object to them , Were you molested or neglected as a child? I am not being rude whatsoever, a lot of our feelings stems down from being a kid , and what we experienced and witnessed growing up , most of us don’t realize the impact it does to us. I was molested by an older woman when I was a child and honestly I didn’t think it affected me , but apparently it did. So if you have insecurities or low self esteem about yourself , and feel you aren’t that attractive, that can cause you to be angry at someone checking you out , Learning to accept yourself for who you are is hard for a lot of people to do. I use to be shy when I was younger and once I broke free of that shyness I was able to feel more confident in myself , and not be my own worst enemy , sadly I am still my own worst enemy at times but I am better than how I use to be. When I was shy and girls’ would check me out , I would get so mad at them for checking me out , because I didn’t feel comfortable within myself and felt like they were blind , like what the fuck are they even looking at me for. I would get angry and walk away as fast as I could , away from them. It was hard for me to feel comfortable around girls’ after being molested , even though I love girls’ I had this wall up protecting myself. Through most of my teenage years , I would not accept a girl that wasn’t confident in herself , if her friend walked up to me and said my friend likes you and wants to talk to you? I would say sorry I have no interest, I was more interested on the girl that approached me first , so I eventually realized I was being an asshole , My very first actual girlfriend approached me first and hit on me , I was able to accept her because of her confidence. Sadly I am still kind of that way , unless I am head over heels for a girl and I make the first move on her. But I prefer a girl making the first move on me. I feel if she makes the first move , it’s easier for me to take those walls down that are protecting myself. If a girl proves to me she only has eyes for me , I am more turned on by that. I love girls’ that are confident and honest with me

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

you’re insecure and think that anyone doing that must be low value and couldn’t possibly be worth your time so you hate them because you oddly see yourself in them even though the other part of you tells yourself your so much better than they are.

The violence speaks to the harsh emotions you don’t want to face, the choice of the eyes underlines your superiority complex where some part of you believes or longs to believe that you’re worthy of taking something away from them because you project your feeling of inferiority onto them and then fantasize about them living out the powerlessness you fear.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Bc you're psycho? No one can tell what's in your head. Go as your therapist.

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

Put a stick it note on your butt. It gives them a reason.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Dangerous, Vicious, Arrogant, Easily annoyed, Badly mouthed, you have issues, clearly...🤦‍♂️... wanted to answer to The Topic, but changed my mind.

AviatorTom · Answer

That means you need to develop self-confidence. There is nothing wrong with looking. If he touches your butt, well that's another story.

RHK36 · Answer

Maybe stop staring and do you boo. You don't know if someone is staring unless you're staring. Just stop caring and move on. I swear your life will be less stressful if you stop thinking about others people's perceptions and actions.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I don't know. It is complementary in a weird way but if he's leering and ogling end generally creepy, then I totally support your gouging his eyes out! If he does it with tact and discretion you wouldn't even know about it.

nawtee_me · Answer

I am not a butt man so I wouldn’t know. But, I am a smile guy so would you still want to claw my eyes out for staring at your beautiful smile?

Lliam · Answer

Men appreciate the female form. Do you expect them to avert their eyes when a woman is within view? Maybe you should wear a burka.

Anonymous · Answer

Either you lesbian or need to wear some loose pants.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Because you feel objectified, which is we boys' birthright.(You girls give us the lady gaze, admit it.)

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Because you don't want men staring at your butt would be my guess

Juxtapose · Answer

*Shrugs* you hate sexual things and are a bit of a prude? Or are you sexually traumatized?

Vegasrunner · Answer

Immaturity, you don't respect other people's personal space.

Staximus · Answer

Does it look like a sack of potatoes or something?

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Because you got them extra claw type nails and think like a cat?

Apple1996 · Answer

I get the same urge

Massageman · Answer

Just stare at his in return.

Dongie · Answer

Because you're a pyscho.

zombiewoof · Answer

Do you like guys or girls

Anonymous · Answer

That's a you problem.

noohair · Answer

Would you rather have them sudder and puke?

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