Guys, I'm 5"10, dark skin slender 128 pounds?

Question

As a tall black woman is it more necessary for me to be skinny as opposed to being shorter. I've been mistaken to be a man before because I'm small chested and in shape. I'm not even Muscular slender and I tower above a lot of guys in my area. How can I appear more feminine despite my height?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I understand the challenge you face, but you can solve that by dressing and carrying yourself in a more feminine way. Avoid anything that's remotely unisex looking and stick with clothes and styles that are obviously feminine.

That means dresses and skirts whenever it's practical, and when it isn't, pick colors and cuts that shout "feminine."

Also, carry yourself with a feminine demeanor. Speak softly and sweetly, and people will quiet themselves to hear you. Use kindness and sweetness to get what you want (which doesn't mean you can't be smart or that you let yourself be used).

If you come across as feminine, men will automatically want to treat you better and look out for you. It's the other women who will give you the most friction, but stay feminine and never let them bother you.

BetaBucks · Accepted Answer

Well you can't control your height, so there's no point dwelling on it. Staying slim is definitely the best first step. Avoiding becoming muscular is next. Then, I'd say hairstyle is really important. Whatever you can do to have longer hair, would be helpful. You might want to avoid heavy makeup as it can give off the "trans" look, but also don't avoid makeup altogether. Clothing is going to be important. Like, dressing in unisex style clothes (jeans and tshirts, for example) is probably not going to help your situation.

bowenw · Answer

Dress in feminine clothing. Wear makeup and do your hair in a pretty style. Consider wearing a padded/push up bra and hip pads.

Hanssolochibaka · Answer

Be you. Your are feminine. Dress accordingly to how it makes you feel not everyone else and you will be right on point. People who are worth it will see you for you no matter how you dress. Not that my opinion matters much but I like all shapes, sizes and colors but is it always what's inside that is more attractive.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

There's ways to make your tits grow. Do you have really short hair or long hair? Do you wear perfume? Do you wear skirts/dresses? You'd have a long way to go to tower over me! I'm 6' 9"!

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly if you’re not already feminine, acting like one isn’t going to do you much good. You’re either feminine or you’re not. Sure you may appear feminine but once the man gets to know you they will figure it out.

OtterMan68 · Answer

dress feminine: sun dresses, heels, halter tops, etc

noohair · Answer

Hello my sweet. You are my type of girl. Tall, dark and tight.

FarmBoy13 · Answer

Tighter clothing to show your shape. Other than that not much can be suggested without seeing what you look like

Anonymous · Answer

That is due to the size of your small frame of being 128 lb most black women are known to have big butts and large breasts. More than 80% of black women are overweight

Rockspaperscissors · Answer

It could be the way you dress maybe you dress not feminine enough to be considered a female. Don't take it personally that I say it like that

Anonymous · Answer

Is it a turnoff to date a guy shorter than you

Tomidland9 · Answer

You sound attractive

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