Why male friend ask if I do finger myself?

[Anonymous]

i said yes and he also asked me how many times a week i do it and how many fingers i use. why does he want to know that about me?

[Nxtawm]

Best advice I can give you is run. Reading your other responses in the comments too, he’s giving the biggest red flag. He constantly asks you dirty questions but states he only wants to be friends. It’s clear he doesn’t respect you much, doesn’t like you enough to actually date you but is down to fuck if you let him. Also no one asks a question like this because they’re curious about girls in general, sounds like the lamest excuse, he’s just horny

[Asker]

okay thanks

[Nikki1989]

Why are you letting some creep ask such personal questions?

[Asker]

i like him so i agreed for it. when i asked me why he ask me that he says that he is curious about girls. he says he think of me as friend only.

[meepmeeperton]

He probably just finds it hot to hear about a girl masturbating... he claims to purely see you as a friend but what that most likely means in reality is that he objectively realizes you wouldn't make a good couple or you wouldn't want to date him, but you're still a woman he can experience physical attraction to and become aroused at the idea of you pleasuring yourself.

[Drewtate]

Women masturbating is arroising to most men.

[Asker]

he says he think of me as a friend only and he asked me this because he is curious about girls in general. i thought he was attracted to me but that made me upset

[Drewtate]

Have you tried taking off your top and asking for an "honest opinion" about your breasts. I had a girl pull this move.

[Asker]

no i did not. do you mean asking him for honest opinion?

[Drewtate]

As a pretext

[RavVid]

... We are just wanting to learn how to please.

I guess he thought he might garner more info from girl friend than a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Because he gets off on it. He’s not just interested in you as a friend. He wants to visit Arby’s. You have the beef lol

[Asker]

what do you mean by he wants to visit arby's

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to have sex w you.

[Asker]

okay

[Opinion Owner]

That’s why he ask you all these details. He’s imagining you doing it. He doesn’t just think of you as a friend. What friend would ask questions like this?

[Asker]

yes i also thought that. but when i asked him why he wants to know then he said he is just curious about girls. and i am a girl and his friend so he asked me. he never admits being attracted to me. he also pretends to be innocent and asks me to teach him dirty things

[Opinion Owner]

lol don’t fall for this kiddo. More than likely he’s going to use you. He’s doing that already. If he’s curious there’s ole tub of content online. He’s going to use you, you’re going to give into sex. Then he’s going to move on. Next thing you know you’re mad at men. So now you can’t trust men.

[Asker]

okay. thanks for telling me.
how is he doing it already?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you’re giving him answers to what he’s asking. You like him yes? What would you say if he said can you send me a video of how you do it? Would you?

[Asker]

no i would not. and he does not ask for any intimate pics. but he asked for photo of me in short dress.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it starts off w an innocent pic. Eventually he will get to asking for something more. You like him. So there’s a chance you’d give him in hopes of him liking you more so you don’t lose him. Men aren’t going to come right out n just ask for that because we know most women are going to say no you’re disgusting. So he has to butter you up some, make you feel
special, give you a lot of attention, etc.

[Asker]

i sent that pic in short dress he did not even compliment me and asked if he could save it. so i accepted he does not like me in romantic way. it has been 20 days and i stopped texting him. i do not show him affection anymore

[Opinion Owner]

I think you made a good choice. I was a boy his age once. Times may have changed but the game hasn’t changed much on meeting women. I think you should meet someone who has respect for you. Someone who isn’t going to go straight to sex. Someone who has an actual interest in you. Your likes, favorite colors,. Your family, etc.

[Asker]

yes.

[Opinion Owner]

I wish you luck w that.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's definitely interested in giving you some action And just trying to figure out what you like

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

Probably just curious or he wants to f u

[Asker]

he asks me for dirty texts everytime he texts me

[dudegreat91]

Probably wants to fuck you

[Asker]

but he is just online friend. and he says he sees me as friend only

[dudegreat91]

Yeah wants to sext then. Not uncommon for friends to sext or even fuck

[Asker]

he used to text me a lot it has been 5 months. last month i agreed for sexting and now he lost interest in normal conversations and wants sexting only

[dudegreat91]

Yeah that happens. The guy seems to be having a one track mind

[dudegreat91]

How did you get in touch with this guy?

[Asker]

via online chatting site

[dudegreat91]

Haha like this site?

[Wise4myage]

He wants in your pants, lol.

[Twalli]

It's hot to hear about a girl masturbating

[HelpfulWoman]

cringe.

[Asker]

what

[HelpfulWoman]

troll