Does he feel somenthing for me?

Question

Me and my friends went on the beach for 1 week and there is a guy that I like and I don’t know how he feels towards me and I won’t ask him about this. My friend who is younger started liking this guy from the bar on the beach and we decided to help her get with him, which it happened and it was cute. The thing is that the guy I like and another friend of him started act jealous” and I still try to figure it out why? Anyway, the guy I like always was looking at me and mantain eye contact and stuff but we barely spoke. Making the story short, they tried make us jealous too? Because they went on the beach at two girls who played volleyball but they were under 18 and I guess their plan didn’t work. As I said the guy I like attidude was very diffrent ( he was not that happy anymore how he was since we came at the beach) he has a mysterious vibe. So in that day the guys from the bar asked us to hangout later that night and we said yes, sure because me and another friend of mine wanted help another girl from the group to get with the dude from the bar. So at that night we went on the beach and I told the girls that the guy I like will be there, that will come after us and joke on the situation and guess what? We sat down romantic with the dudes from the bar etc and the beach was empty! And when I turned my head I saw the guy I like walking, PASSING NEXT TO US TO GO TO THE HOTEL WERE WE STAY! And i was in disbelief … what was he doing there at that hour since the beach IT’s huge. And the guys from the bar said like… it ain’t obvious? He likes one of you” but the relationship between the guy I like and my friends it ain’t a good one like they curse and hate each other a lot… now… he came after me? To see how I’m? Also the next morning others girls asked him what was he doing in the bushes” on the beach and he tried make a story that he went on another beach and etc… which I don’t believe… please help me understand what happened there :))

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

There are so many things I'm not understanding. I think there are a lot of irrelevant details. Let me point to a few.

"mantain eye contact and stuff but we barely spoke" Okay? And what?

"Because they went on the beach at two girls who played volleyball but they were under 18 and I guess their plan didn’t work" How do you know they were under 18? Why is that relevant?

"We sat down romantic" How does one sit down romantic?

"PASSING NEXT TO US TO GO TO THE HOTEL WERE WE STAY" you mean he was walking on a public beach past a hotel?

My point is that you are an overthinker and a big one. Not every little action means something. If you like the guy then talk to him and flirt like a normal person would.

CuriousHubby · Accepted Answer

The guy likes your friend! Not you  He is treating you like your a grenade he had to jump on and he wants attention after ignoring you. Crush but go for better guys!