Boys, if you are close friends with some girls, how do your actions differ around them versus with your crush who is part of that group of friends?

[Anonymous]

Boys, if you are close friends with some girls, how do your actions differ around them versus with your crush who is part of that group of friends?

[DishLady]

Ok, so I’m not “boys” but I’ll share an observation from my group of friends…


We’re a large group of guys and girls… Everyone hugs and shares and gets on really well, but one guy tends to have a conservative smile around the girls in the group — he’s got a rugged look to him that girls in the group love and several of the girls have crushes on him since we were kids.


When this ONE girl says “hey” even from across the room his WHOLE BODY shifts and he blushes a little and his eyes turn to honey. It’s SOOOO adorable. And even though they don’t see each other often or say much when they do see each other, his response to her is always this way and everyone can tell he’s smitten.

[teamvic]

So in this situation it's a group of friends with girls, and the crush is also in the friends group?

[Asker]

yes right

[teamvic]

Typically you'd show more attention to said crush and try to be around them more often than not. Compared to the other girls in the group

If it were me and like let's say the other girls are around me, I'd still be cool with them but I'd try my best to look like it's just a friendship thing only

[Asker]

are you gonna be shy to your crush or no and are you will talk to her like the other girls?

[teamvic]

Well assuming she's a friend as well, no. But it can be the case for other guys

They may also tend to be more cautious of looking dumb in front of them. But as I said that differs from person to person