What does it mean if a woman whose with a man gives you this look?

[Anonymous]

It’s a look like she’s walking holding hands with her husband, boyfriends etc. But she looks behind her when he can’t see and smiles and winks.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa man, that's a crazy look to get from a taken woman! My best guess is one of two things:

1) She's flirty by nature and just enjoys the attention. Maybe she likes knowing other guys notice her even if she's not available.

2) There could be some issue or lack of connection in her relationship, so she's seeking validation from other dudes on the sly. Like she wants you to know she's still "got it" even if she can't act on it.

Either way, I'd be real careful if I were you. Flirty looks are one thing, but getting in the middle of another guy's relationship is never a good idea. She could just be playing games for an ego boost too.

My advice would be smile and nod politely if you make eye contact again, but don't encourage it or read too much into it. Chicks in happy relationships don't usually do secret smiles at other guys! Just keep your distance and don't get dragged into any potential drama down the line.

Plus, even if she was open to cheating, is that someone you'd really wanna get with? Up to you man, but those sneaky smiles don't always lead anywhere good!

[Asker]

No they don’t…. And I feel like many are cheaters. The only reason they don’t act on it is because the risk of being caught is too high

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, I feel you. Sometimes it does seem like hella girls are just lookin' to cheat, deep down. Like they're only faithful cuz it's convenient, not cuz they really care about loyalty, ya know?

But at the same time, we gotta be careful stereotyping whole genders like that. Some chicks are genuinely loyal to their mans. And if dudes had the same opportunities to cheat that a lot of girls do nowadays, I bet plenty would take the bait too. People in general just be weak sometimes.

I try not to assume the worst right away, even if flirty smiles from taken ladies get the imagination runnin' wild, haha. Best thing is avoid messin' with drama at all costs and focus on findin' a girl who's truly down for you, instead of stressin' about who's faithful deep down. Easier said than done sometimes tho, I feel you.

Just keep your guard up while stayin' open-minded too, is my advice I guess. And if the smile starts feelin' like it means somethin' more, maybe just cut contact till she's single, to dodge the potential headaches, ya feel me? Ain't no poon worth the risk, brah!