My date jacks off to my photos?

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F 25, M 31. I was set to go on a date with a guy. We have been talking for a few days he’s really nice, a business owner, smart, seems like he’s ready for a family. He discovered me on hinge and has been watching me since December on my instagram. Yesterday he told me just before he asked me out, that he m*sterbated to my social media photos.

I feel so gross about this I feel like I would be disrespecting MYSELF if I ignored it and went on the date. How do you have a first date with someone like that it’s so awkward and gross, I’m weirded out. He says he was t saying it to offend me but it just means he admires me a lot.

He’s been asking if I still want to go on the date, I liked him but I’m not so sure now.

Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

" Yesterday he told me just before he asked me out, that he m*sterbated to my social media photos." - THAT WAS A BIG FAT LIE.

It was a lie, It was an attempt to make you think, he thinks that you are very beautiful.

Imagine for a second. The Internet is full of porn with hotter women, doing full naked dirty videos, all for free. Very interactive video. If he has to jack off. He is jacking off to those. Not to you.

RHK36 · Accepted Answer

This guy had to have red flags to begin with that you overlooked before he told you this. Either way if you stick around for a guy that tells you he pre jerked to photos of you before really knowing you then it's on you. Most guys aren't doing stuff like that let alone telling you unless they're a walking red flag. Creepy.

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

Haha my last boyfriend told me he jacked off to my dating profile pic before we even met. Luckily he told me this like a couple weeks into the relationship not before. So your poor guy just put his foot in it. He most likely thought you would be flattered that he finds you so attractive.
I wouldn't be too hard on him. There's probably like 100 other guys jacking off to you abd you don't even know lol

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

I don’t think I would go on the date tbh. It isn’t as much that he did it as that he said it, if he will say that at this point what boundaries will he cross later? Also I would be self conscious and thinking about it the whole time. Overall I just think it would be better to go separate ways.

However if you really like him it might be worth trying, I could be wrong. JMO good luck!

Finchie40 · Answer

That’s something he should of kept to himself until he really got to know you , so it’s understandable that you would feel weirded out about that , but understand most guys’ are very visual when they see a beautiful girl , so in a way you can take it as a compliment that he was masturbating to you

ohsheeT · Answer

It just means he likes what he sees and you must be hot enough that you turned him on and made him feel something I really don't think that he should have told you about it that soon but I mean he did and it is what it is but I wouldn't judge him just because of that I think he was impressed by you and then he was trying to tell you how excited your picture made him feel but like I said I don't think I would have told you that. Until somewhere down the road

AviatorTom · Answer

It's fairly normal for a guy to masturbate to pictures of a woman he finds attractive, and most women know this. To tell you all about it, though, is not normal. He's letting you know, perhaps subconsciously, that he views you as an outlet for sex, perhaps nothing more. Be careful if you date him. You can probably do much better.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Don't go out with him. He's not only a perv for jacking off to your pictures, he's an idiot for telling you. But I also have to ask what kind of pictures you are posting?

snapkingmatt · Answer

Ai, dude messed it all up! Stupid idiot for telling you.

In all honesty: know guys jack off a lot. Really a lot. We're disgusting. We watch porn, pictures, think of naughty things, and yes, we also think of girls we know. There's probably not a lot of guys you know that haven't jacked off to a photo of you.

Apple1996 · Answer

It's normal for a guy to do this but odd that he told you so soon especially before the date lol

spartan55 · Answer

You girls just can't help yourselves... ALWAYS choosing the fuckhead... It's like a superpower.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

For him to tell you that is pretty lacking in boundaries. It could be that he is just testing you to see if you are only interested in sex and not a relationship.

NamerOfStars · Answer

So... you're SURPRISED that the guy who's dating you is attracted to you? Do you not understand how human sexuality works?

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Quite expected for a guy, but hot damn! Should've kept it as a secret, at least after talking for awhile.. 🤣

KpopMusicFan · Answer

Me and my boyfriend do that stuff with each other’s pictures plus I don’t see what the big deal is.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh I did that once. In person, assaulted me within 10 MINUTES of meeting and took his dick out and asked me to suck it. Avoid yourself the trouble and ignore him. He’s testing the water. Same age gap too. wondering if we met the same guy

dean53AU · Answer

A lot of guys do the same to pics of their girlfriend's because they turn them on so much.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

You must be hot! Do you ask him to send you cum tribute photos?

Anonymous · Answer

dude is a creep and will eventually be on the news wanted for assault, or worse murder. seriously stay away from guys like this...

Anonymous · Answer

Awkward AF. but in a way it shows interest in you sexually. He thinks you're hotttt.. if you want him, he'd be doing everything to you in bed

CubaPirate · Answer

Normal he did it but strange he told you about it

DrPepper12 · Answer

🚩🚩🚩 Weird Creepy  TMI  Bye bye freak!!

Anonymous · Answer

You are dating an immature man-child if this is true.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I’d say I probably wouldn’t in that situation. But for sure possible.

sara1728 · Answer

You should do the same to his photo

In_Trance · Answer

his timing is off, but so is your perception

Anonymous · Answer

Dude, that's hilarious!😆

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with you

Anonymous · Answer

Troll work here level 1 trolling

scott04sa22 · Answer

Sounds like a creep

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