TikTok creator isn’t responding to my messages?

[Anonymous]

So he’s not really popular, so before anyone says he has a lot of messages, that’s not it. He has 3 accounts and 4000 on his main account. Thats the most followers he has on any account. He does live streams and I’ve been a viewer for quite a while now. He does know me quite well (in terms of just being a viewer on his live streams), he’s made me moderator on one of his accounts too.

So, a few days ago he sent me a follow request while I was listening to him as a guest on someone else’s live. Later that night after he got off and sent me a message asking me if he can ask me a question, it about some gossip he heard about me talking about him to stalker accounts. I’m quite sure this is made up, and it was just an excuse to talk to me, it just didn’t sound very real when I asked him questions. But anyway, we moved on from it and he told me he believes me, after that he asked me my age and what city I'm from and we did flirt during this text convo. I’d say this convo was an hour and a half in total with us laughing about things too. He seemed engaged in the convo and all seemed fine.

Now yesterday I sent him a message asking him if he minds if I talk to the girl in question (that I think may have gossiped about me to him but again im not convinced. I just wanted to see his reaction to see how sincere he’s being). But he hasn’t responded. It’s been almost 2 days and no response. If it’s not clear already I do have a huge crush on this guy, his other account shows some reposts from today, so he’s been on TikTok. It’s not clear if he’s been on the account I messaged but what are the chances he never went on it?

what do you guys think? Did he lose interest in speaking to me? Maybe that convo didn’t go as well as I thought it did.

Updates

1 y

His accounts not had much activity on the one I DMed, no reposts or liking comments. He is still following me… yet he has been active on other accounts so I don’t know.

[quickquesocheese]

He contacted to see if you really where talking shit about him to TikTok accounts that discuss stalkers. What did you expect? A friendship? He confronted you and nothing else.

[Asker]

That convo with the stalkers only took up the first 30 minutes of the conversation. We spoke for a while after with him mostly trying to carry on the conversation asking about me and discussing funny things that happened on his lives. Also, why would he follow me if it was just about that? He would have unfollowed by now but there’s not been anything

[Asker]

Also, his story didn’t really hold straight. I asked him questions, he didn’t want to answer properly and what he did answer was very back and fourth. I have logical reasons to believe he made an excuse to talk to me, both of my friends also believed it didn’t sound real and more of a reason to start chatting

[spartan55]

"he would have unfollowed me"... lol too much work. Also, guys don't make up bullshit reasons just to talk to someone. But believe what you want.
Why does his story have to be credible to you? I'm not getting why you feel entitled to his answers at all. Like I said, you aren't worth the hassle.

[Asker]

@spartan55 lol who hurt you people? 😂😂

[Asker]

@spartan55 I got to the bottom of it, I changed my username and he didn’t recognise who it was anymore. Better luck next time guys

[spartan55]

Uh... no one hurt me ding dong. Wth does that even mean?

[spartan55]

Yeah you really showed him by changing your name.
You are slick, I'm sure no one will get it.

[Asker]

@spartan55 are you special needs? How can one be this slow? If you are I genuinely apologise …

[Asker]

@spartan55 why would I change my username to show him anything? What are you on about big man?

[Asker]

@spartan55 babes what you talking about? “Why you feel entitled to his answers?” Lol do you know how a conversation works when someone messages you? Silly man

[spartan55]

Are you still talking, stupid ass pink anon? Go post one of your stupid stories with pictures of your dogs and shit...😂😂You're a joke.

[Asker]

@spartan55 hopefully I’m not as bitter as this when I’m that age

[spartan55]

You are being a high maintenence pain in the ass, that's why no commumicado. Guys don't want that bullshit in their lives.

[Danny_dan92]

Tik tok sucks anyways

[avery58]

Just find someone that lives near you tbh

[Asker]

He literally lives an hour away lol

[avery58]

An hour is still kind of eh, if it becomes an actual relationship, but up to you.