A guy I used to know?

[Anonymous]

Sooo this guy I used to know, well we use to meet and watch spiritual documentaries together. Discuss god, astrology and all things mystical. I got pregnant and he literally prayed at my knees and begged me to have an abortion said he would take me to the clinic and everything. So I did have an abortion but on my own terms and without him with me because I was so angry at him. He ghosted me all through the process. Fast forward acouple of months, I reached out to him. We spent the night together. He was acting strange so I did some research and come to find out that he had a girlfriend that he proposed to and she was pregnant. I immediately reached out to her and told her everything. I just want some closure because I never want to speak with him again but before he was about to get married he tried contacting me. I brushed it off and blocked him. Now it’s been 3 years since that and just a month ago he tried contacting me again saying sorry and called me but I didn’t answer. I reached out to his wife again and told her that he’s trying to contact me. Well I just want to know what could be the reason he try’s to contact me?

[ohsheeT]

Because that's who he is he's a cheater he's unfaithful he's a liar his wife probably hates him because I'm sure he's cheated on her before..

You can't tell me everything that you've been through with this guy you don't know exactly who he is by now I mean he slept with you when he was married if you get together with him he's going to sleep with girls while you are together with him that's just who he is you need to just say goodbye to him and never contact him again and tell him not to contact you because he's nothing but trouble you'll end up getting you pregnant his wife pregnant some other girl pregnant all at the same time

[spartan55]

Why does it matter? That guy should be so far from on your mind by now.

[Whitewulf]

Yes abortion is real, so is hell. Not saying you’re going there or not forgiven. But taking the attitude that your sition wasn’t right so bye to the baby? Really. Don’t have sex if you’re not responsible enough to accountable when life happens. It’s not all about you. . Sorry spsrtan55 her reply is closed. Avoidance disorder

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I wouldn’t be surprised if he saw you as his “one that got away” kind of vibe, settling for the girl he’s trying to do-over your relationship with instead of having you when he thought you were no longer an option. It’s not an uncommon thing for most folks as I understand it, men especially will just settle for any woman willing to have them because being married to a mediocre wife is better than being alone in their eyes.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m really confused. Can you explain in one sentence why you’re mad at him?

[WhitneySnow]

Ohhh. He had a girlfriend while he was seeing you. Now I get it. Missed that the first time.

[Taniisokay]

RIP TO THE BABY.

[Asker]

Sooo you want me to be a baby mom when he has a wife and 2 children. Ok. It makes a lot of sense to do something like that. To deprive myself of having a proper family dynamic for the child. You’re sooo right.

[Asker]

Abortion is real and so is the trauma, guilt and regret from it so before you come here and make shallow remarks like that just remember god Is a loving god not a hateful god, he is a friend of silence through suffering and he is a forgiving god. We are all saved through the anointed one, Jesus Christ his only son. He paid for all present and future sins from Adam and Eve to even me today. Have a good day mam.

[Taniisokay]

I don't believe God have sons. "I AM MUSLIM" I just said RIP to the baby only nothing more. Have a good day too.😊

[seviyorummm]

It's obvious why I want to contact you.

But I can tell you the reason in a message, it can't be from here.

[MrGSpotHer]

Sex silly can't you tell he's the cheating liar type?

[teamvic]

He probably still likes yo ass

[teamvic]

People think just cause the person in question is married it means they don't like anyone else

[ChicoFromThe305]

The possibilities are endless

[Med_guy1978]

Were you pregnant with his child?

[nawtee_me]

Was the baby his that you killed?

[TheCaller]

This doesn't matter anymore

[noohair]

Ok, what?

[Bigantdog69]

Sounds very exciting

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Consent]

he tryna fuck

[Consent]

you know, sex

[Consent]

sexual intercourse, if it wasn't clear

[MasterKS]

thats a player! lol