What is going on here? I'm so confused?

[Anonymous]

I worked w/ a guy for 5 years. He came in 1 night 2 my job & said & did all the right things Im 46 he's approx 41 & have been waiting a long time 4 mr right so I fell hard. I was a little upset when on a Fri night he cut it short & said he was going home 2 sleep then he pretty much took over my job & ghosted me & made sure I had no way to contact him AT ALL my feelings became deeper (we were both bicycle couriers) & my ex pointed out that I was blind & that he was gay because he was wearing daisy dukes. I got fired because my boss at work was gay & liked the same guy. As time went on a vicious hacker broke into all my accounts &8 different devices Bank accounts & it's still going it's been a living nightmare I had a feeling it was him (things were happening that made it obvious) he was obsessed w/me watching me 24/7 I think he liked me but of course he denied it to everyone else. Then approx 8 mos after I got fired he called me out of the blue &asked 2come over 2play video games. He video chatted me but refused 2 talk on video When he got 2 my house he was driving the same make & model of car my gay boss had just a different color.. weird. Anyway he conveniently forgot the power cord so we went 2 my room I was wearing a baseball jersey he said u want 2 change into something more comfy & he picked out just a T-shirt? Weird I have very large breasts we laid on the bed and he told me what 2 do I liked that a lot. He kept his shoes on bandana &even safety glasses I tried 2remove them he wouldn't let me? Ok? He wouldn't allow me 2kiss him. He asked me 2 take off my top & proceeded 2cup both of my breasts from behind me &then laid on top of me & dry humped me from behind he then touched my (you know) but only through my pants he spooned me as well &kept saying in a very patronizing tone how I wanted to be his little spoon he asked for a bj which I gave him & I didn't spit what does this mean he's into tarot & sex magic spells what is that is it evil is he gay HELP

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So I just noticed there's a what girls say what guys say and there's a thumbs up or a thumbs down why would somebody and a guy for that matter give this question a thumbs down they do know that the valid question and I need advice it's people like that who not only give a thumbs down to something that doesn't even deserve a thumbs down anyway you look at it but then doesn't even answer why they gave a thumbs down oh dear Lord it must be him he found me again are you ever going to leave me alone

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Oh yeah to let all of you in this forum know... This person watches me through cellular devices even my TV they are obsessed! They have thousands of fake IDs aliases Gmail accounts and probably girl ask guys accounts as well it's amazing how they can be in so many different places at once they're almost inhuman in a way that's for sure so if you see what seems like different people making snide sarcastic comments where they aren't warranted you can almost guarantee that it's my stalker 😍

[spartan55]

What the hell did I just read?

[Asker]

Again when people make replies like this it makes me wonder are they attempting to be funny maybe you make a little sarcastic jab or not make maybe attempt... lmao if you are saying what the hell did I just read because you're just as confused and shocked as I am and would like to know what's going on then hey thank you I appreciate your support. But again if it's to get some other type of reaction there are a lot of people that would go to a NASA convention and open a brochure on rocket fuel and say what the hell did I just read because it's too confusing and way over their head they're just not educated enough on that subject matter so my question to you is are you trying to be silly or humorous if so I appreciate your humor laughter is the best medicine but I really do need some serious answers here so unless you want to start looking like the person who did this to me or just to complete person with a lack of empathy like a narcissist don't even respond this way because it only makes you look bad I do give you two thumbs up for at least not responding anonymously thank you. just another pet peeve of mine somebody who answers a question that leaves you with more questions wondering what their response even meant actually you make me feel like saying what the hell response did I just read smh 😆😆😆

[Asker]

I don't know you tell. Me because I think any halfway literate person that would have read the same thing that you read would definitely know what they just read so like I said I don't know you tell me do you even know how to read what did you just read do you even know how to read you sure don't know how to reply and you are the reason the world is the way it is today is there still no answer from the other ignoramus the anonymous ignoramus basically all this is I mean I'm asking people's opinions cuz it's so strange but haters will be haters they don't realize that telling somebody else's light isn't going to make their shine any brighter trying to steal someone else's vibrations or energy you can't do that but these dumbasses will still try they will stop at nothing because they're miserable and empty inside and see that you're going through everything they're putting you through hell and back and you're still smiling you're still standing and they just can't understand why these are the type of people I deal with everyday but they're getting a little weak now they need to start drinking some more Gatorade I think I need to get some new haters because the old ones are starting to like me for real 😍😍😍 but just like God wants souls so does the enemy half these people don't even realize they're being used for that purpose so sad but I always recognize them by their fruits and most of the time they're living on nothing but the flesh I always tell people don't go to the dark side they don't have cookies. Sigh but to tell you the truth the answer is they're jealous at the fact that I don't hide behind lies fake accents fake profiles fake phone numbers fake everything that I'm real I put it all out there and I just don't care what anybody else thinks I'm 100% real and to me that's better than whatever fake ass s*** they are any day... AMEN

[Titus_of_Ultramar]

bloody hell wtf

[Asker]

I know right? It's very strange!

[LazerMan]

woman i am more confused than you be

[Asker]

Lmao

[Avicenna]

Stay away from him

[Asker]

Ok? Yes I feel like I should however something is drawing me to him like maybe it's more of a trauma Bond or that we both had bad childhoods where that he doesn't feel like he's good enough to be loved but could you maybe expound upon your answer I need advice what are you thinking thank you so much for answering!

[Asker]

By the way Summer of Love I like a lot of your answers to the questions people have asked I want to send you a message and apparently when you're a brand new person it won't let me do you have any advice for me on my question please I need it badly I know to stay away I mean we should always follow our gut instinct but I need to know what any of this means what is your take on it?

[Anonymous]

That is your wrong age on here, obviously? 🤦

[Asker]

Why would it be the wrong age on here I am 46 and he is 41 did you read it wrong am I missing something what are you getting at I guess I'm confused why would you think that this is the wrong age?

[Asker]

Ok anonymous I'm waiting to hear why you would think this is the wrong age is it the doing things through the clothes I know I thought that was strange too that's usually what most teenagers do the only other thing I can think is he really is gay and he was just doing all this with me to prove a point or have the satisfaction of knowing that he had his number in a part of me and he's gay sorry there's no way of saying that without sounding crass

[Asker]

You know at first I gave you a thumbs up for asking the question but I think there's nothing ruder than somebody who answers a question and you answer their question right back and they say nothing why would you do that just to be rude or wait a minute maybe you're my stalker who actually did this to me I bet you are hi stalker are you ever going to leave me alone

[Asker]

Or how about you answer my question maybe you can tell me why this happened or no that would probably take all the fun out of it for you wouldn't it I can't believe there are such sick evil people in this world I may be a lot of things but that's just something I can't wrap my head around!

[Asker]

This is your lame attempt at sarcastic humor, obviously?

[Asker]

Is anybody seeing this anonymous person's answer how long ago did they say this and how many times have I responded and yet all I hear is crickets chirping as God is my witness this is the type of crap that follows me everyday truly pathetic I hope they realize even anonymously how bad they're making themselves look I am so glad I am not them payment

[Anonymous]

Yikes report your boss

[Asker]

No he's the main boss I've already been fired I would never report him he didn't do anything wrong technically he didn't it doesn't matter I already tried to get my job back and to get the letter and yada yada it didn't work is anybody going to answer my question about my situation I can't believe nobody's answering it I really need some advice nobody's answering