Guys, is it wrong to be a Mama's boy?

[Anonymous]

I am a Mama's boy, I am asking this bcoz most girls laughed at me and rejected me.

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[Finchie40]

As long as your Mom taught you what’s right from wrong , if your Mom always told you that you were right and never wrong , you will have a hard time being in a relationship with a girl because you will always assume you are right and she is wrong. Most parents’ have that effect on their children when a parent babies them and constantly gives to them like they do no wrong My mom pretty much did that to me and my brothers’ , we could rob a bank and my Mom would make an excuse as to why we needed the money , she saw no wrong in is whatsoever , but lucky for me I had a Dad that set me and my brothers’ asses straight. I have friends ‘ that were babied by their parents’ and sadly a lot of them have a hard time accepting the word No , because their parents’ constantly gave into them , like they were these perfect little Angels sent from above. So when you come across people that think they do no wrong , it pretty much means they were pampered as a child. Sadly they aren’t good relationship partners’ to be with because they feel they do no wrong.

[BobbieBoy666]

Is it wrong to be a mama's boy?

A man who is close to his mother is not a momma's boy in a negative way. Research has shown that boys and men with strong relationships with their mothers are mentally healthier, more empathetic, and have better relationships with women. May 13, 2024

What causes a man to be a mama's boy?

When she's angry or anxious, she unconsciously uses her child to calm her own emotions, making the child an emotional support. This behavior leads the child to become overly bound to the mother, learning to co-regulate in the same way. This anxious attachment is what typically characterizes a 'mama's boy. Feb 1, 2024

Is it a red flag if a guy is a mama's boy?

Being a mama's boy isn't inherently bad, and dating one isn't necessarily cause for concern. But if he lacks healthy boundaries with her, overvalues her opinion, and makes you compete for his affection, it'll be challenging to cultivate a healthy relationship with him. Jun 21, 2024

[Asker]

Absolutely right! Me and my mother are more empathetic. I am not living with my parents anymore. She was a bit controlling earlier but now she has changed a lot. I told her that I would marry a girl of my choice. My dad is one of the coolest guy on the earth. 😊

[BobbieBoy666]

👍💯😇

[jshm2]

Depends what you mean, as "mamas boy" can mean different things in different circumstances. It could be you enjoy sex with your mother, it could be your mother runs your life, it could be your mother is the decision maker in your life, or it could be you have respect for your mother.

So it's more likely you are not coming across well enough to the type of "Mama's boy" that you are, and why. For example I was a "mama's boy" in my younger years as my mom was a respectable woman who suffered a lot for her kids, and as I grew older I realised she stuck with us, despite us being criminals. But he turned out all right.

Obviously cleaned things up since then, but she's getting old and don't get much time to see her these days. But I still get that animalistic rage when I see people who disrespect their mothers who suffers for them.

[ChiTown33]

I think it depends what you mean by that. My father passed away over 20 years. ago. My mother is alone. I try to look after her because of that. If a woman is threatened by that or doesn't want to know me for that then I'm better off not knowing her.

My mother neither controls nor interjects herself into my life. She'd never want to be burden to me or my sisters. In fact I have to talk her into letting me help with most things.

[paledreams]

Yes it's wrong to ask is there anything wrong - you're cool man ♂️ if you're mama is cool with ya still living at home or paying rent with ya then let's all be cool 😎😎😎🆒

[Asker]

Thanks 😊☺️

[LiamJHayden]

As in Mama does everything for you? At a certain age, yes, unless you are disabled. If you are just close to her? I wish mine we still here for me.

[Asker]

When I was a school kid, she did everything for me. I'm a good guy, I love my mother so I told her to stop it. I'm just too close to her. I don't like it when my mother does all the household chores. She was a hardworking person. Now, her health has deteriorated. She is a wonderful mother. 😊

[nolabels]

I've found that there are different types of mama's boys.

Some are less admirable than others.

[Chthou95]

No because then your way of thinking critically and rationally goes out the window because mama raised you to be emotional

[DrPepper12]

Why TF would you even tell them this? It seems like you're asking to not have a first date let alone a second one! Stop doing that. Now. 🛑🚩

[JohnnysbigD]

it is very WRONG. as soon as you get a job and house don't go back to her for a very long time-unless you need something. most girl don't like mamas boys

[Anonymous]

These girls ain’t loyal. Your momma is the only woman who will stick by your side at the end of the day.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If you mean still depending on your mother then yes it's bad.

[Asker]

I'm not financially dependent. But I call her all the time to discuss important things. I am the oldest, I have two younger siblings.

[jahaims]

You answered your own question

[Asker]

I want to know how? other guys think about being a Mama's boy. As far as I know, all men are more or less Mama's boy. Am I wrong?

[Ladsin2]

Wrong meaning what?

[noohair]

A Mama’s boy has a barrier to becoming a Man.

[Jmmmfi4]

AT YOUR AGE? LOL

[Joesmith999]

Not at all