Is being a "mama's Boy" a turn-off?

[ThatTallGuy]

I'm 17, about to go into my senior year and I was just curious about this. I'm not like my dad at all, I'm not into trucks and hunting and checking out girls and all that jazz. Maybe I don't have a whole lotta testosterone, who knows.

But my mom's a flight attendant and so she's super friendly and outgoing and I'm just like her.. Well, a guy version of her. I definitely consider myself a mama's boy, I won't deny it. I've been told by A LOT of people of both genders that say I'm a nice guy but I should be more into "man stuff".

What do you think?

[hollyolivia]

Ok I know this sounds like a longshot BUT I think It depends on how insecure the woman is or how she was raised. If she's really insecure about who she is and needs a man in her life, then she's gonna go for mr.macho to boost her ego. There's also the girls with the dad's who are total dudes or girls with brothers who are macho men and those girls are just used to men being like that.

But honestly, a lot of women LOVE the sensitive guy. Especially if he's confident, caring, and cute (which it looks like you don't have a problem with)! Not to mention I've heard so many times before that one way to tell if you've got a good strong man is if he has a great relationship with his mother. My best friend's boyfriend is FAR from being a manly man, he hardly likes any guy stuff, and they've been happily together for 3 years.

Hope that helped. ;)

[Laurie182]

I don't think you should change at all, you sound really nice. Some girls will pefair that. You just got to wait for the right one. Don't let anyone tell you who to be, because everyone is unique its what makes us stand out, so don't ever change, you sound awsome! :)

[UniversalAce]

Aww.. That's adorable.

If you're nice and extroverted then it's fine, normal & [NOT] a turn off.



As long as if you aren't a complete wuss and give off that "i like d***" vibe.