Why do men make it so obvious when they stare at a woman's body?

[Anonymous]

I cover myself up. I don't wear sexy clothes bc I have a big chest size.

But there are always men who just stare for too long, sometimes with eyes and mouth wide open.
Even though I look at them, like; "excuse me?" And then I turn around.
My friend noticed it too but that friend thinks it is also bc I am good looking which I don't.

[Finchie40]

It’s how we were made , some of us can control it and some of us have a harder time controlling it , we are very visual when we see a beautiful girl , that catches our eyes. So if we see a beautiful girl it just comes natural to us to look. And check her out. Some guys’ are fixated on boobs or her ass, or her legs , or her face and eyes etc. or the whole package. I would be lying if I didn’t do double takes on some very beautiful girls’ I come across , will try to not
Make it obvious , but sorry shit happens , I guess lol A lot of times I will try to make eye contact with a girl I find absolutely beautiful , to see if she smiles back , if she does , I will more than likely approach her and introduce myself to her and take the chance of getting to know her. I know most females’ get creeped out if a guy is staring at her but she usually doesn’t care if she finds him attractive as well. So it’s a chance we take , Girls’ do this as well , she just tries to be more sneaky about it. I caught girls’ staring at my buldge and I will say you can name him if you want? he’s actually pretty friendly and he likes girls’ a lot. It works most of the time lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think a lot of the time woman overreact. Sometimes no one's looking at them and they'll start playing with their cardigan or something. And now I'm thinking about it.

And woman stare at men all the time. I catch them pretty much any time I dress half decent.

I know this might fall under mansplaining but I don't consider this advice gender specific. I think you'd be a lot happier and more comfortable if you just faced whatever it is that makes you insecure.

The most telling thing in your post is the part about you thinking you don't look good. Just take emotion out of a second, how does that make any sense?

Guys definitely don't really stare at anyone they don't want attention from. If you really objectively think you get so many more stares from men than anyone else, how can you think that you're ugly.

The only logical explanation is that something else makes you feel that way and usually that something else stems from a self limiting belief.

And I say this not to belittle what you're going through but because I think it's a ridiculous thing to have taking up space in anyone's mind. So I genuinely hope these words help.

[Apple1996]

I also have big boobs and try to cover them so no one will stare but it's impossible 😔 I hate the stares

[Asker]

I'm so sorry! I understand you completely 🙏🏻 I still haven't found a cheap solution

[Apple1996]

There is no solution besides staying inside lol

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

The stares must be fun sometimes, right? Or flattering?

[Asker]

Indeed I stay inside so much 😝

[Light_beam]

Your boobs are not big , don't flatter yourself

[Apple1996]

@Light_beam omg that's a compliment 🥲

[Light_beam]

lol, no way

[Apple1996]

@Light_beam yess way thanks

[Light_beam]

hahah :P

[Daniela1982]

Why do women make it so obvious that they want to be looked at?

[Flvr0]

Who’s the first girl?
(I know who the second is)

[Daniela1982]

@Flvr0 You are one up on me, as I don't know either.

[Flvr0]

@daniela1982 the bottom one is Lexi Belle. Check her out…

[Arkire]

You do know there is a difference between when someone intentionally is looking for affirmation and putting themselves out there and not, right?

Like no, most women in sweat and tired at the gym don't want you to be eye banging them. That same woman might go on tiktok in yoga pants and a tube top.

Different places, different vibes. Read the room.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Lack of self-control mainly.

A teenager acting in this manner is more justifiable, but grown ass men should definitely not be acting like this.

Men are attracted to women no headline there, but self-control is necessary in a civilized society.

Then those very same men complain about getting called "creeps" all the time. What a fucking joke.

[HawkPerception]

"Why do people of the opposite sex look at something they are biologically attracted to and wired to focus on?"

That's what your question sounds like to me.

Does it bother you? If so, get breast reduction surgery and remove the blessing you were given. Then you'll have less eyes on your chest.

People only realize that they like the attention they get once it's gone and no one looks in their direction.

[Arkire]

Oh please, that's clearly not what they're asking. They're talking about the people who overly stare and go too far with it. A woman should not have to do surgery because you have the self-control of a tween boy.

This is such a creepy answer.

[Asker]

Thank you @Arkire that you understand me. And especially thanks for saying that about surgery

[HawkPerception]

@Arkire Buddy I don't have the social tact of a peanut. But a lot of guys do and they're not trying to be creepy. They just can't help but notice a girl's boobs.

And unless it turns into some kind of physical sexual harassment, it's not a crime to look.

Your comment shows you have the IQ of a donkey.

[Anonymous]

Back in the before time before average young women had the 1,000 yard stare from social media attention and the now dying epidemic of crack-head simp adulation irl, women would stare at oh lets say an 8. They would flirt like crazy, get all red, y’all used to make it pretty damn uncomfortable for a hick who grew up at the end of a road in the middle of nowhere.

I should have savored it a bit more, I still have it, but I think they can smell money better now.

Y’all see that video of some average lookin skinny dude, not tall, weak chin, weak in general. He was letting girls move in to kiss him at the club, and then moving right before they kiss, like 20 all in one night. He must’ve been a famous singer or youtuber, or a local rich kid, or all 3.

Y’all just go for money and fame, you go for what other attractive women want, there doesn’t even need to be a reason anymore.

Anyways y’all stare and act goofy, so I’ll state, and just smile

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

A lot of guys probably don't even realize they're doing it.

Some guys know they're doing it and want to stop staring, but they can't because you're so incredibly hot.

And other guys know they're staring, but they don't care because they're just enjoying the show.

[CB-Raido-Time]

I think maybe some guys they think it's showing their interest that they are interested in who they are looking at. And in a way it does too breaks the ice and then those guys fall right through.

Some probably go it to prove they're not gay while others do it because she has a napkin stuck on shoe.

[Cindy911]

Most guys are hungry dogs. looking at you like a piece of meat that is Normal. Guys have no sense of direction only a erection.

[paledreams]

Mmm hmm 🧐

[RingOfFire]

It's a natural instinct for survival of the species. Women's bodies are designed by nature and evolution to get men's attention and cause them to have a reaction that leads to procreation. It is a natural instinct in men and they have to work hard not to show it since in the current society it is considered rude.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

You just get used to it. Will probably happen for the rest of your life as a woman, covered or not. 👀😂

[9in_Serpent]

We can't help it especially when we are younger its like we become robots and can't control ourselves and just haaaaaaaave to look!! Its almost impossible for us not to look lol so sorry about that sweetheart its nothing personal

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Can't help it, if it's showing we are looking.

The more you hide the more time it takes to scan so longer the stare.

It's really weird like our eyes get stuck.

[jojouzumaki]

Lmao

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I will tell you a story of my initial job days.

It's not only just boobs but an attractive face and the body structure

So I had recently joined a company in an metropolitan city and I am not from a metropolitan city

I think it was the second day at the office and I am sitting with new joinee's infront of a system

And this girl tall and fuller body and boobs and her face was glowing like goldish white color like caramel but whitter and in traditional attire

And I was looking at her and lost in my thoughts and mouth open with a certain mischievous smile.

She saw me with a smile and with her big eyes she asked what I still mesmerized nodding my head with mouth open.

She comes near me and closes my mouth by pushing my jaw up and I was all red and I didn't even know her just another employee.
One of my good memories.

[BetaBucks]

Why do women make their sexual body parts so obviously visible? These two reasons match. Biological instinct. Both sides of the voyeurism/exhibitionism dynamic that is natural for our species.

[chocolatetwopointo]

most women with bigger chests physically can't hide it, they could wear the baggiest shirt and still would be able to see she has a big chest

[BetaBucks]

Yet 99% of them wear skin tight clothes, while they could wear loose fitting clothes like what 99% of males wear, and their tits wouldn't be sticking out. You can lie all you want, but we all know why this isn't what happens. It's basic human instinct.

[Asker]

@chocolatetwopointo I wear the baggiest shirts I can find, I don't like tight clothes around that area but yeah I agree with you bc I experience that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

@Betabucks have you met every single woman on earth? no exactly so i can't tell if they wear skin tight or baggy clothes, and maybe u could try to keep it in ur pants for a day?

[BetaBucks]

You guys can lie all you want, it doesn't change anything. It's plainly visible every single day to every single person in the West. I can see I struck a nerve. Sorry you're ashamed of being an exhibitionist. You can work through that one on your own, but lying to or trying to insult me won't help.

[chocolatetwopointo]

@BetaBucks ah ofc the man who has met all the worlds women thinks he knows every single thing about them, not everyone wants attention from men all the time, not all women dress in skin tight clothes

[BetaBucks]

Good thing I never said "all." Obviously exceptions exist. Just like how not all men check women out either. But we both know most do. I'm not pretending to know every man in the world when I say that, and I doubt you'll get equally enraged about that generalization.

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg what is it that u dont understand? not everythings about you not everythings about men, y'all men r so selfish its concerning

[BetaBucks]

Lmao that won't work on me. Nice try though

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so ur take is that every woman wear skin tight clothes to attract men and distract them? do u not realise how idiotic that sounds?

[BetaBucks]

It's funny that you have to lie like that. The messages are clear for anyone reading them. Go on though, it's entertaining.

[Apple1996]

It's clear that she is right about this. Most women aren't dressing for men. Especially when it comes to their boobs. I have big boobs and it's hard to hide them even in a winter coat they are still noticeable

[chocolatetwopointo]

@betabucks bro thats exactly what u said, if im so wrong explain ur take

[BetaBucks]

Lmfao apple, don't start with your lies too.

Choco, telling that ridiculous of a lie when everyone can see the thread is pretty weak. You can do better.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet u won't explain? all you’ve said is women dress only to impress men

[BetaBucks]

Most do. I already explained. You can just reread the thread if you're actually confused about my position. But you're not confused. You're lying. Just pretending to be dumb so you can direct your anger at me.

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg how selfish are men these days?💀 there's no way men r this egoistical, not everyone wants you bro, by the way id love to see ur source of how yk women dress for men pls show me

[chocolatetwopointo]

@betabucks pls google ”do women dress for men?” there's ur answer and proof

[BetaBucks]

Lmfao how many times have you seen a woman get dolled up when she's not going to leave the house or be around any men? Oh, what's that? 0? Okay, so, like I said, exceptions exist, but our species is programmed this way. The same way males are programmed to check females out. Exceptions (besides homosexuality, obviously) exist there too.

You can go with as many personal insults as you want, but all that means is that I've hit the nail on the head. Why hate your nature so much? Imagine me being enraged about the mention of men checking women out 😂

[BetaBucks]

Why would I need to google more lies. I'm not a fucking moron who gets manipulated by lies in the face of obviously reality. If women put the same effort into their appearance when staying home alone as they did when going around men, I would change my opinion. It doesn't exist, outside of rare exceptions.

[chocolatetwopointo]

did yk women actually dress up for themselves bc men aren't the centre of the universe? now show me the source where it says all women dress up for men, im waitinggg

[chocolatetwopointo]

bet ur single too💀 ofc u r

[Apple1996]

@betabucks I dress my best at my house when I'm alone. It's not in our nature to dress up for men. Look at most other animals. Peacocks, the males are beautiful and show off to the females. We are suppose to be like that. It wasn't long ago that males were wearing wigs, makeup and heels

[BetaBucks]

For themselves because it makes themselves feel good to be more attractive to men. You ever get dolled up and sexy to stay home alone?

Married for a decade and with her for 15 years. Nice try tho. Anymore lies you need to get out?

[BetaBucks]

Lol apple, we both know you're lying. You're my favorite account here because of all the hilarious lies you tell.

[Apple1996]

I dress down to go out so nobody looks at me

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dress up all the time in my house? i really doubt ur married, has she told u these lies ur spreading?

[Apple1996]

@chocolatetwopointo I'm sure his imaginary wife is lovely and believes all his lies

[BetaBucks]

Then you're part of the minority I referenced, Apple, but you've also lied to me a million times, so it's hard to say for sure.

Not when you're home alone and no one is going to see you. And you won't be going out. I've never once heard of a single person doing this.

And no, my wife tells this lie too, but I still love her. My mom, sisters, cousins and close female friends have all been honest though. Not that they needed to. It's obvious. But just another lie, agreed upon.

[BetaBucks]

Lmao quit projecting, Apple, we both know you lie constantly here 😂

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro yes i dress up to be alone bc my whole life isn't fucking revolved around men, ”ive never heard of this” btch what?💀 you haven't met every single person either have you? ah ofc u think every woman in ur life is lying bc of a huge egoistical opinion of yours

[BetaBucks]

Nice lies! You're doing great. Oh and all the women in my life that told me the truth are lying? Makes sense. You're mad right now because you know you're lying and got called out. You're going with personal attacks for the same reason. Won't change reality though. Even if you happen to also be in the small minority, you still know I'm right about the majority. But I know you aren't in the minority or you wouldn't have responded the way you did.

[chocolatetwopointo]

oh my fucking god, what makes u think im lying? WHEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORLD doesn't REVOLVE AROUND YOU MAN😭😭

[BetaBucks]

When did I say the world had anything to do with me? Add another lie to the list! Great work!!

[chocolatetwopointo]

OH MY FUCKING GOD NOT EVERYTHINGS ABOUT MEN WHERE DID U EVEN GET THIS FROM HOW SELFISH ARE MEN THESE DAYS

[chocolatetwopointo]

its actually insane how retarded and egoistical you are💀

[BetaBucks]

Lmao I got way under your skin here.

OMFG!! MEN DO NOT CHECK WOMEN OUT!!! THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU, CHOCO, YOU RETARD!!! STOP BEING SUCH A SELFISH NARCISSIST!!!

[chocolatetwopointo]

BRO UR THE ONE INSISTING WOMEN DRESS UP FOR MEN AND OFC IM FUCKING MAD BC UR SO RETARDED AND can't LISTEN TO ANYONE BUT URSELF I FUCKING HATE MEN SM U DONT UNDERSTAND

[BetaBucks]

BRO YOU'RE THE ONE INSISTING THAT MEN CHECK WOMEN OUT!! WTF KIND OF EGOTISTICAL NARCISSISM IS THIS!! YOU THINK ALL MEN ARE JUST CONSTANTLY CHECKING YOU OUT BECAUSE YOU'RE SO AMAZING!!!

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay r u gna take this fucking serious or am i gna have to fucking block ur immature ass?

[chocolatetwopointo]

ur insisting on that women dress for men even if women in ur life and online has said its not true, tell me why u believe they’re lying?

[BetaBucks]

lol but there's the truth. You hate men. I'm glad you finally admitted it. You're just a sexist, plain and simple. I love women. And I love women's nature. I always will. Without it, we'd go extinct.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wow u realised that now u fuckhead? okay? answer my fucking question u immature dickhead, what makes u believe these women are lying to u?

[BetaBucks]

Nearly all the women in my life admit to it. One doesn't. for the same reason you don't. Well, one of the reasons. You can block all you want. You're the one that escalated this. And it still doesn't change the reality of our species.

[chocolatetwopointo]

LMFAO yeah ONE woman now apparently equals to ALL women nowadays, men make me wanna kms tbh i swear to fucking god, and they might have ”admitted” to it once not all the fucking time dipshit

[BetaBucks]

Lmfao you're legitimately incapable of reading, aren't you? Cry more, wipe your lying ass tears from your dumb ass eyes, and read it all over again.

[chocolatetwopointo]

LMFAO I can't READ? BE FUCKING FOR REAL DUDE

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay so all women in ur life has said they ALWAYS dress up and do stuff for men?

[BetaBucks]

Nearly all that I'm close with, and nearly all the time. Not one has ever got dolled up to stay home alone, so it's obviously not for themselves.

Wait, that was too nice for how you're talking to me. Add in some cusswords and personal insults, will ya?

And guess what, Choco, you can't manipulate me. You can't control me. You can't hurt me. Your anger doesn't affect me in any way at all. All the people in your life that you abuse and manipulate, wish you would be a kinder person. But you don't care.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok there's no way ur 40 years old💀 okay yeah so the 5 women yk in ur life has said they dress for men and r pick mes but the rest of the world isn't, accept that, now i won't be arguing with a manchild anymore i feel bad for anyone whos ever been in the same area as you bro

[BetaBucks]

It doesn't take a single person to say it. Women display their sexual body parts for attracting potential mates. That's all there is to it. We can all observe reality to see that this applies to most women. Just like how most men check women's sexual body parts out. It doesn't matter if you keep lying, or personally insult me, or do the circular conversation tactic. It doesn't change basic human instinct.

[Radiate143]

Men who want you to notice do it. Men stare at women undetected all the time.

[paledreams]

Sometimes I think both genders can "know," 😯🙃👀

[Radiate143]

@paledreams know what?

[paledreams]

Sense a person's interested lol - there's glare, there's stare, and there's hot diggity

[paledreams]

Eye 👀👀👀

[Kayla45]

To be 100% honest girls check out guys too, this isn’t gender exclusive thing. Opposites attract, plain and simple. No need to write 5 paragraphs for someone to understand that.

[Arkire]

Because we have a natural desire to look and a lot of men don't have empathy.

Sounds harsh, but it's true. I find myself all the time looking at women. I then purposefully try not to do it as I know it can make them feel uncomfortable.

A lot of men don't have that second part. It's all about them.

[Anonymous]

It's because you are attractive, and they have no self control. Personally, I have only lost self control with one girl.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

It’s biologically programmed for them to look. Men have to make an effort to not look. The brain is wired to look.

[KennethNoisewater]

This absolutely should be picked for the best comment. I was going to write almost the exact same thing.

I am not a boob guy. They are cool but I really don’t care about big boobs. But I honestly have to have an inner dialogue the entire time when I am talking to a woman. My eyes just want to look for some weird reason. I honest to god have to put in effort not to look.

[Anonymous]

Dunno, I never stare, this is mostly because there isn't a woman alive, you included, that is as beautiful, and as attractive as my wife, plus she has something no other woman can ever have, my heart.

[LiamJHayden]

Improper men will stare at you even if you are wearing a potato sack. Proper men will look you in the eye even if you are wearing a bikini.

[Daniela1982]

"Proper men" are getting harder to find then.

[Anonymous]

As a man, when you see the boobies:

Please understand, don’t judge. 😅🤣

[lorenzomichael]

body's women are attention whores you girls know that. you guys like showing off your bodys to us men. Especially if there’s one in particular that you like besides. What do you want us to do not look?

[chrissykerdock]

i learned that at 14 when i started wearing minidresses it's not an insult

[Japangirly]

I would look too lol. I’m no better than a man it’s just attractive and fascinating.

[Anonymous]

Strange, having a big chest is more reason to dress sexy.

[OlderAndWiser]

Men are predators and women are the prey. This is how we hunt.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok what the actual fuck, this is insane💀

[OlderAndWiser]

I did not mean any of that in a literal sense.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yh bet..

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@chocolatetwopointo hahahaha 😂

[Anonymous]

@betabucks ah ofc the man who has met all the worlds women thinks he knows every single thing about them, not everyone wants attention from men all the time, not all women dress in skin tight clothes

[LostandFound__x]

They don’t always. If they make it obvious it’s because they want you to realise.

[Anonymous]

It's no different than any of the other ways men's behavior differs from women's. You can never know what a women really thinks or feels because they are so cryptic. With men, what you see is what you get. Women should be more that way.

[paledreams]

My eyes are here 👀👁️👁️👀 I try not to ever be that uhhh guy

[noohair]

This the caveman pert of the brain. Every guy looks at every girl this way. They are doing an unconsoius evaluation for suitabliliy for mating.

[BetaBucks]

Exactly. And women are doing subconscious presentations for finding the best possible mate. Even when they're already tied down, upgrades are possible. This is just human nature, and neither side is wrong for it. Acting on it is the wrong part. Unless they're single, obviously.

[Anonymous]

they think they are not being caught. I know a woman and one day a man was staring really hard and drooling at her chest. So she kicked him in the balls. She is a monster.

[genericname85]

because it's almost impossible to hide. women do it too.

[Unit1]

Men look at women's titties. This is news for you?

[DrPepper12]

Do you differentiate between good looking men and creepy men when you complain about this?

[chocolatetwopointo]

if a good looking man is staring at womens chests he's automatically a creep

[DrPepper12]

At least you claim to be consistent and that's good.

[chocolatetwopointo]

most women would agree

[Ladsin2]

You say you're not wearing revealing clothing, but women's and men's definition of that are likely different. It can't be helped.

[Anonymous]

Natural reproductive urges and instincts, mostly.

[Djaay]

Get over ur self. We men will look at whatever is thrown at us

[Jltakk]

I wouldn't know, I don't look at people in general. I don't remember most people's faces as a result.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you've got the combo of being good looking AND having spectacular breasts. So yeah--you're going to get a LOT of looks!

[Opinion Owner]

What size are they?

[PaleDale]

If she's got a nice figure some guys glance

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Why do women make it so obvious when they stare at the man to assume they're staring at them?

[EnjoytheDay777]

It's just not okay. They're obvious because they're pigs

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Immaturity or never been with a woman in their life.

[RealFantasyGuy]

We are just looking at your hear :), it not our problem that the busts are in the way.

[RealFantasyGuy]

*heart

[kareka]

Guys love big boobs
Search about
Wear a lot we will notice lol

[msss98]

They are mostly creeps

[Sirenboobzilla]

They are visual creatures

[Kelley1]

The do when women flaunt it.

[paledreams]

Kelley ain't wrong

[spartan55]

This should hardly be front page news at your age.

[debtfree_oneyear]

boobs are to men what kryptonite is to Superman

[Xwtxx]

It's in our circuitry

[Crazzyyworld]

Cuz they r a dog

[beefcakebradybatson]

We're lusty lads !!!

[Jmmmfi4]

WE can't HELP IT

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes u can

[Jpie555]

Cuz we love tits…. Duh!!🤪

[Anonymous]

What else should I stare?

[woahhh152]

Those are creeps

[seyfturk]

Just feet

[Anonymous]

Pic please!