Why do men make it so obvious when they stare at a woman's body?

Question

I cover myself up. I don't wear sexy clothes bc I have a big chest size.

But there are always men who just stare for too long, sometimes with eyes and mouth wide open.
Even though I look at them, like; "excuse me?" And then I turn around.
My friend noticed it too but that friend thinks it is also bc I am good looking which I don't.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It’s how we were made , some of us can control it and some of us have a harder time controlling it , we are very visual when we see a beautiful girl , that catches our eyes. So if we see a beautiful girl it just comes natural to us to look. And check her out. Some guys’ are fixated on boobs or her ass, or her legs , or her face and eyes etc. or the whole package. I would be lying if I didn’t do double takes on some very beautiful girls’ I come across , will try to not
Make it obvious , but sorry shit happens , I guess lol A lot of times I will try to make eye contact with a girl I find absolutely beautiful , to see if she smiles back , if she does , I will more than likely approach her and introduce myself to her and take the chance of getting to know her. I know most females’ get creeped out if a guy is staring at her but she usually doesn’t care if she finds him attractive as well. So it’s a chance we take , Girls’ do this as well , she just tries to be more sneaky about it. I caught girls’ staring at my buldge and I will say you can name him if you want? he’s actually pretty friendly and he likes girls’ a lot. It works most of the time lol

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I think a lot of the time woman overreact. Sometimes no one's looking at them and they'll start playing with their cardigan or something. And now I'm thinking about it.

And woman stare at men all the time. I catch them pretty much any time I dress half decent.

I know this might fall under mansplaining but I don't consider this advice gender specific. I think you'd be a lot happier and more comfortable if you just faced whatever it is that makes you insecure.

The most telling thing in your post is the part about you thinking you don't look good. Just take emotion out of a second, how does that make any sense?

Guys definitely don't really stare at anyone they don't want attention from. If you really objectively think you get so many more stares from men than anyone else, how can you think that you're ugly.

The only logical explanation is that something else makes you feel that way and usually that something else stems from a self limiting belief.

And I say this not to belittle what you're going through but because I think it's a ridiculous thing to have taking up space in anyone's mind. So I genuinely hope these words help.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I also have big boobs and try to cover them so no one will stare but it's impossible 😔 I hate the stares

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Why do women make it so obvious that they  want  to be looked at?

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

Lack of self-control mainly.

A teenager acting in this manner is more justifiable, but grown ass men should definitely not be acting like this.

Men are attracted to women no headline there, but self-control is necessary in a civilized society.

Then those very same men complain about getting called "creeps" all the time. What a fucking joke.

Anonymous · Answer

Back in the before time before average young women had the 1,000 yard stare from social media attention and the now dying epidemic of crack-head simp adulation irl, women would stare at oh lets say an 8. They would flirt like crazy, get all red, y’all used to make it pretty damn uncomfortable for a hick who grew up at the end of a road in the middle of nowhere.

I should have savored it a bit more, I still have it, but I think they can smell money better now.

Y’all see that video of some average lookin skinny dude, not tall, weak chin, weak in general. He was letting girls move in to kiss him at the club, and then moving right before they kiss, like 20 all in one night. He must’ve been a famous singer or youtuber, or a local rich kid, or all 3.

Y’all just go for money and fame, you go for what other attractive women want, there doesn’t even need to be a reason anymore.

Anyways y’all stare and act goofy, so I’ll state, and just smile

HawkPerception · Answer

"Why do people of the opposite sex look at something they are biologically attracted to and wired to focus on?" That's what your question sounds like to me.  Does it bother you? If so, get breast reduction surgery and remove the blessing you were given. Then you'll have less eyes on your chest. People only realize that they like the attention they get once it's gone and no one looks in their direction.

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

I think maybe some guys they think it's showing their interest that they are interested in who they are looking at. And in a way it does too breaks the ice and then those guys fall right through.

Some probably go it to prove they're not gay while others do it because she has a napkin stuck on shoe.

SuchSightsToShowYou · Answer

A lot of guys probably don't even realize they're doing it.

Some guys know they're doing it and want to stop staring, but they can't because you're so incredibly hot.

And other guys know they're staring, but they don't care because they're just enjoying the show.

Cindy911 · Answer

Most guys are hungry dogs. looking at you like a piece of meat that is Normal. Guys have no sense of direction only a erection.

RingOfFire · Answer

It's a natural instinct for survival of the species. Women's bodies are designed by nature and evolution to get men's attention and cause them to have a reaction that leads to procreation. It is a natural instinct in men and they have to work hard not to show it since in the current society it is considered rude.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

You just get used to it. Will probably happen for the rest of your life as a woman, covered or not. 👀😂

9in_Serpent · Answer

We can't help it especially when we are younger its like we become robots and can't control ourselves and just haaaaaaaave to look!! Its almost impossible for us not to look lol so sorry about that sweetheart its nothing personal

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Can't help it, if it's showing we are looking. The more you hide the more time it takes to scan so longer the stare. It's really weird like our eyes get stuck.

BetaBucks · Answer

Why do women make their sexual body parts so obviously visible? These two reasons match. Biological instinct. Both sides of the voyeurism/exhibitionism dynamic that is natural for our species.

Radiate143 · Answer

Men who want you to notice do it. Men stare at women undetected all the time.

Kayla45 · Answer

To be 100% honest girls check out guys too, this isn’t gender exclusive thing. Opposites attract, plain and simple. No need to write 5 paragraphs for someone to understand that.

Arkire · Answer

Because we have a natural desire to look and a lot of men don't have empathy.

Sounds harsh, but it's true. I find myself all the time looking at women. I then purposefully try not to do it as I know it can make them feel uncomfortable.

A lot of men don't have that second part. It's all about them.

Anonymous · Answer

It's because you are attractive, and they have no self control. Personally, I have only lost self control with one girl.

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

It’s biologically programmed for them to look. Men have to make an effort to not look. The brain is wired to look.

Anonymous · Answer

Dunno, I never stare, this is mostly because there isn't a woman alive, you included, that is as beautiful, and as attractive as my wife, plus she has something no other woman can ever have, my heart.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Improper men will stare at you even if you are wearing a potato sack. Proper men will look you in the eye even if you are wearing a bikini.

Anonymous · Answer

As a man, when you see the boobies: Please understand, don’t judge. 😅🤣

chrissykerdock · Answer

i learned that at 14 when i started wearing minidresses it's not an insult

lorenzomichael · Answer

body's women are attention whores you girls know that. you guys like showing off your bodys to us men. Especially if there’s one in particular that you like besides. What do you want us to do not look?

Japangirly · Answer

I would look too lol. I’m no better than a man it’s just attractive and fascinating.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Men are predators and women are the prey. This is how we hunt.

LostandFound__x · Answer

They don’t always. If they make it obvious it’s because they want you to realise.

Anonymous · Answer

Strange, having a big chest is more reason to dress sexy.

Anonymous · Answer

It's no different than any of the other ways men's behavior differs from women's. You can never know what a women really thinks or feels because they are so cryptic. With men, what you see is what you get. Women should be more that way.

noohair · Answer

This the caveman pert of the brain. Every guy looks at every girl this way. They are doing an unconsoius evaluation for suitabliliy for mating.

Anonymous · Answer

they think they are not being caught. I know a woman and one day a man was staring really hard and drooling at her chest. So she kicked him in the balls. She is a monster.

Anonymous · Answer

@betabucks ah ofc the man who has met all the worlds women thinks he knows every single thing about them, not everyone wants attention from men all the time, not all women dress in skin tight clothes

genericname85 · Answer

because it's almost impossible to hide. women do it too.

Unit1 · Answer

Men look at women's titties. This is news for you?

DrPepper12 · Answer

Do you differentiate between good looking men and creepy men when you complain about this?

paledreams · Answer

My eyes are here 👀👁️👁️👀 I try not to ever be that uhhh guy

Ladsin2 · Answer

You say you're not wearing revealing clothing, but women's and men's definition of that are likely different. It can't be helped.

Anonymous · Answer

Natural reproductive urges and instincts, mostly.

Djaay · Answer

Get over ur self. We men will look at whatever is thrown at us

Jltakk · Answer

I wouldn't know, I don't look at people in general. I don't remember most people's faces as a result.

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds like you've got the combo of being good looking AND having spectacular breasts. So yeah--you're going to get a LOT of looks!

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Why do women make it so obvious when they stare at the man to assume they're staring at them?

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

It's just not okay. They're obvious because they're pigs

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Immaturity or never been with a woman in their life.

RealFantasyGuy · Answer

We are just looking at your hear :), it not our problem that the busts are in the way.

kareka · Answer

Guys love big boobs  Search about Wear a lot we will notice lol

msss98 · Answer

They are mostly creeps

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

They are visual creatures

Kelley1 · Answer

The do when women flaunt it.

spartan55 · Answer

This should hardly be front page news at your age.

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

boobs are to men what kryptonite is to Superman

Xwtxx · Answer

It's in our circuitry

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

We're lusty lads !!!

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Cuz they r a dog

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

WE can't HELP IT

Jpie555 · Answer

Cuz we love tits…. Duh!!🤪

Anonymous · Answer

What else should I stare?

woahhh152 · Answer

Those are creeps

seyfturk · Answer

Just feet

Anonymous · Answer

Pic please!

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