Do you guys wait for a green sign, signal, feedback from a woman before you reach out? If you do what is that?

[Natka077]

[Anonymous]

I have to feel that she chooses me. Just like a woman wants to feel chosen by a man a man wants to feel like he's her choice as well. I've had many women be into me, while being into other guys as well. I might be a team player when it comes to sports but not when it comes to relationships. If she can't narrow it down to just me, she doesn't get me. I've had many women I think think I rejected them. When the reality is the never made me choice, just an option.

[Natka077]

Totally makes sense, but I feel this is more when you are about to claim her as a girlfriend?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Most of us don't know how to read your signals so we just guess and otherwise run into it blindly.

Usually all we have to go off of is a glance that could have meant anything or a passing comment.

[Billlewis]

It could be a nice smile or something flirtatious that she does, or just plain bravado, however misplaced it may be... lol

[Billlewis]

Thanks for the like.

[LiamJHayden]

I cold approach if I am attracted and she seems to be single. I then engage, if she allows.

[BarryLiverstone]

When you say reach out, are you asking about after you give them your number? Or after you have been talking for a while?

[Natka077]

The first initial contact. Before you ask for the number

[BarryLiverstone]

Lots of guys will wait for a green sign.

[Natka077]

What's a green sign for you, or other guys

[BarryLiverstone]

If irl, lots of times it’s body language. Smiling and open body posture will invite a guy to initiate because you are signaling you like how he looks.

[Natka077]

And offline? Social media?

[BarryLiverstone]

Socials, you can send the guy a message and ask questions. Be positive and flirty

[Natka077]

Thank you💜

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Did that help?

[Natka077]

Sure because I am very bad with the signals. I added a guy I like on Instagram and I thought if he likes me he will reach out, but he just keeps watching my stories, maybe he is waiting for a sign

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s right. He wants you to message him. Why not?