Ladies, what would you do if there was a guy or a guy friend you really liked, but he doesn't want to date or have a relationship?

[scott04sa22]

Ladies, what would you do if there was a guy or a guy friend you really liked, but he doesn't want to date or have a relationship? What would you do? Be friends with him, so maybe later on he'll change mind with you? Move on?

[VIVANT]

it depends if he was explicitly clear and kind with me about it and if he is not attracted to me then probably yes I can stay friends with him. However…if he is attracted to me and if yes not against relationships in general just with me, i would be concerned he doesn’t actually get along with me as a person and pretends figuring sex may potentially be on the horizon. I just find a weird when people are friends and are attracted to each other, and fine with relationships in general but they don’t wanna be in a relationship specifically just so awkward.

This is all heavily hypothetical tho…. It would depend on the specific situation.

[WhitneySnow]

Move on I guess. I might be friends with him, but I wouldn’t hold out hope that he’s going to change anytime soon.

[Anonymous]

I would find a new one