To answer honestly: yes, some guys do, do that. However, it is the exception, not the rule. If you felt like he was interested and he agreed to go out with you, more than likely you were right, and he was interested. As far as him being less enthused than you expected, there are quite a few things to keep in mind:
- He may not have ever had a girl ask him out, in which case you would have caught him completely off guard.
- He may have minor issues with gender roles, and regardless of how much he likes you, it made him slightly uncomfortable to get asked out by a girl.
- He may have been trying to play it cool, as most guys tend to.
- He might be the kind of guy that just doesn't show enthusiasm that way.
All this is beside the point: you got the date. You're passed the point of wondering if he likes you -- now you're at the point of proving why he should. No point in worrying. Remember that if you are having a good time, he probably is too.
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Yes, a guy would go out on a date with a girl he isn't necessarily interested in. If he doesn't know you for example, all he would have to go on is looks. So going on a date/hanging out with someone is a way for him to get to know your personality.
yes he would. for you to have been crushing on him for 1+ year and have asked him out, obviously you had a high level of interest in him. he has to know that. so there is a chance that he could have said yes just to see what kind of sexual favors youd be willing to do for him since you like him so much... its a possibility and not unheard of.
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U really have a crush on this guy... don't overthink it.. U're too young for that.. Just enjoy the date and wait for him to make the next move... if he doesn't he isn't into u..
To answer ur question the answer is yes but unlikelyPerhaps...
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