Guys always staring at my chest. Why is this?

[Babitutj]

Why do guy Keep staring at my chest and

Trying to be slick like one opens the door for me but he’s facing me looking down while I pass him COME ON DUDE.

At first years ago one guy at work was always staring so much and I assumed ok HE likes my chest. But now years later it’s like every guy almost is doing this. That’s an exaggeration but it’s a lot and I feel really weird about it. I like that I’m attractive I guess but every guy staring is just like I’m a walking pair of boobs? I am super quiet but come on. I’m a person. I don’t get respect just this.

[_Maya_]

Uh you don't get why guys stare at girls chests and you are 34 years old? I would figure someone in their mid 30s would have figured out why. They can't help themselves but to look. This is especially true the more you show them off the more that they are going to look or stare at them. I don't think it is just this one particularly guy that is doing it but probably lots of guys are. You just happen to notice that he does because maybe he is way too obvious or does it constantly like you have mentioned. Either way he isn't the only one that does it. The others might just be way more discreet than this guy is. Sounds like he will position himself perfectly and maybe makes it way obvious what his intentions are.

[Jmmmfi4]

EXACTLY WHAT SHE SAID

[Franka9]

Agree, many men just like to look at that. Just like women also like to look at something.

[Grond21]

My thought exactly. It's strange a 34 year old woman doesn't know this

[BobbieBoy666]

Response stoppedSent by Copilot:
I’m sorry you’re experiencing that. It can be uncomfortable when people don’t respect personal boundaries. There are a few reasons why this might happen:

Biological Factors: Some studies suggest that men are naturally drawn to certain physical features, like the chest, due to evolutionary factors. These features can signal fertility and health1.
Social Conditioning: Media and societal norms often emphasize certain body parts, which can influence how people perceive and react to others2.
Lack of Awareness: Sometimes, people might not realize that their behavior is making others uncomfortable. They might not be aware of where their gaze is directed.
It’s important to remember that this behavior is about them, not you. If it makes you uncomfortable, it’s okay to address it directly or seek support from friends or colleagues. How do you usually handle these situations

[Finchie40]

Because you have nice tits , and most guys’ love tits on a girl , I understand you don’t like being stared at by strange men , but if it was a hot guy that was staring at your tits? you probably wouldn’t mind lol , so just ignore it best way you can , Most of us have eyes that see , so people look at each other all the time , whether they are obvious or not obvious about it , so just accept it for what it is , I am sure you checked out hot guys’ before that weren’t aware that you were checking them out and I am sure their were guys’ that were aware of you checking them out , So it can go both ways , just accept the fact that you are attractive and guys’ and maybe some girls’ like checking you out lol.

[_Senorita_]

That's just because of your dressing babe why do wear revealing clothes then people will look at you as if you are cheap... You should cover yourself like you are a diamond and precious that no stranger can look at u but your husband can!!!

[Babitutj]

Thanks sis. I try to. I don’t show cleavage. But I also don’t wear a bra but I tried to hide that. But yeah maybe it will be easier this winter cause I can wear thicker stuff

[Static_In_The_Attic]

The guy isn’t staring at your chest, your chest is staring at his eyes.

[Nerdvana]

Hi, and you are right. Men should be more respectful of you. In a weird innocent way, we are not trying to be creepy, but honestly, we just can't help ourselves. I do apologize. I wish we didn't have those instincts. I live in Los Angeles and there are a lot of women who don't wear bra's, regardless of breast size. And I am convinced that at least 10 percent of women who wear tight yoga pants do not wear any panties, because you can definitely see everything. I know for myself, I do try not to look, I don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. But it just visual appealing. What can I say women are very attractive and sexy.

[Lliam]

It's totally normal for guys to notice luscious boobs. They can't even help it.
But guys who ogle and act creepy are jerks.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ropabptBmLs

[Babitutj]

I cover my titties by the way lol

[Lliam]

If they are a good size, you can't hide them, though.

[Babitutj]

So guys are staring even though they’re covered with loose top? I guess to me it’s boobs so who cares but to males it’s like WOAH COOL SIGHTING I BETTER GET A BETTER LOOK.

[LiamJHayden]

A lot of guys are seemingly incapable of looking at women as anything other than a collection of body parts. At least it makes it easy to know whom to reject.

[DrPepper12]

Size? Cup? Type of dress? Visible cleavage? Braless? V neck? Without more info I would say you likely ARE pretty - either face, body or both - and that is a head turner. Sorry about the creepy lurkers but I guess I would say try to take it as a compliment? Ik that shitty advice but I don't know what else to say? Challenging strange men is always a bad idea...

[ExplorerUK]

Most probably cuz you have nice boobs. The sad thing is you can’t hide them. So just enjoy the fact they find your physical self attractive.

[Babitutj]

I agree it’s hard to hide them. Thanks.

[FunkyMonkee]

We can't help it! It's what we're wired for! If a stick with tits walked into the room, we'd still look at the tits!
Thousands of years ago, when we were walking on all 4's, ass was at eye level and that was our big sexual attractor. When we learned to walk erect, ass was no longer at eye level so, nature gave you something similar to attract us... tits!
That's why we stare at your tits.

[noohair]

Every guy has a caveman part of the brain that looks at every woman and evaluates their suitability for carrying a child. Men desire younger women for this. For the guy, he does this calculation on every woman, Ever old men do the same thing. Boobs and hips are part of this process. It is automatic, so don’t be offended.

[Makeushiver]

Either you have some very cool shirts or great tits

[coolbreeze]

The first thing a guy notices on a girl is either her boobs, but face or the way she dresses. Its just the thing that guys do when they look at a girl.

[hashmi12]

It can be really frustrating when people focus on specific body parts instead of seeing you as a whole person. Sometimes, societal norms and media portrayals can lead to that kind of attention. People might not realize how their behavior affects others. It’s important to set boundaries and feel comfortable in your own space. How do you usually handle it?

[Jrg98]

Going braless is always something that draws all attention especially if there’s any size to your nips, just ignore them

[Daniela1982]

All I can say is. . .

[AviatorTom]

Guys like looking at nice things, and a woman's chest is usually nice. You probably have a very nice chest to look at.

[rienna888]

Awww I get you girl. I am the opposite I’m flat so I’m scared to even be naked around my boyfriend. I envy you though cuz I’d like to be busty

[JesseP1nk]

Thats a good thing... that it means he is not one of them

https://www.youtube.com/embed/B_F6pRMQ72c

[elizamichale1]

No matter what u can't stop them from tht so just learn to ignore honey

[Mati91]

Probably as close they’ll get to your bed room willingly.

[Wise4myage]

lololol.

[EnjoytheDay777]

That's a total lack of respect. I'm sorry

[Babitutj]

Thank you. And then all the lowlife men here excusing themselves as if they have no ability to use self control they just don’t respect me or women. Disgusting.

[EnjoytheDay777]

You have the right to be treated with respect and dignity. Those men are here because they're low lives and and can't keep a true relationship in real life. It sucks that you and other women have to put up with their shit. Cowards who post here cause they're too afraid to show themselves

[Babitutj]

Thanks. Yeah they talk crap and sexually mistreat women all day and night.

[EnjoytheDay777]

Fuck them. Just ignore them as best you can and stay away from those kind of guys.

[beefcakebradybatson]

They're boys;we chaps ALWAYS try to look at a chick's boobs. (I'd probably stare at your spuds if I met you, lassie !!!)

[Wise4myage]

You must have very nice boobs. But if that bothers you than say something.

[Jmmmfi4]

LOL... YOU SERIOUSLY DON'T KNOW WHY GUYS DO THIS? HOW OLD ARE YOU?

[Iron_Man]

Sexual attraction

[Bricealan]

Could be you are just too full of yourself

[Fromdusktilldawn]

they must be pretty big then

[Rohaan2020]

Maybe bca u have rlly large boobs

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Can someone say “attention seeker?”

[RedInnocent69]

Let’s see ‘em and I’ll tell you 😉

[Kingofkings1992]

Come on. Seriously?