What do you think about a guy always proposing me things but when I propose him he always finds excuses?

[Anonymous]

And the more we become close the more he distances himself…and then the cycle starts again. Understandable.

is it avoidant attachment?

[Fanfare690]

Somehow when you get close he runs away. I would say anything accident for sure. I'd say go really slow with him. Baby steps. Don't wanna scare him. Or just let him do all the movement

[Asker]

It’s been 2 years…

[Fanfare690]

I dont think its going to go ANYWHERE

[Asker]

But why is it happening? I put some distance lately and he s alway coming back !

[Asker]

The more we get closer the more he distances himself ! That’s crazy. Like first we used to go to the cinema and then he started to fear to go the cinema alone with me ! And we didn’t even kiss. That’s crazy no?

[Fanfare690]

Yes it's crazy that's why you should move on.. sorry

[Asker]

I already cut ties but I was thinking of this lately.. and he s still stalking me on social media

[Fanfare690]

He likes the push pull i guess. Unless you put your foot down and make him take you on a date you'll continue going circles

[spartan55]

Instead of trying to assign the latest pop psychology buzzword label to him, have a face to face discussion.