Is there something wrong with me is this normal does he think I'm dirty?

[Anonymous]

I really liked a guy had a crush on him for years we worked together and when he finally came over and we were alone I was wearing a dress and he made me change into pants and touched me only through my clothes the next time he came over thought he was touching me but at the end I noticed he was pulling off a rubber glove does this mean it hurt my feelings so much you can't get anything touching someone does he think I'm disgusting or dirty is this normal who does this please it's really bothered me advice will help thank you

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, I'm so sorry to hear this happened. That is absolutely not normal or okay behavior on his part. There is nothing wrong with you at all - this dude has some serious issues.

Wearing gloves is super weird and disrespectful. He clearly doesn't see you as a real person with feelings if he's treating your body like something dirty he needs protecting from. You deserved so much better than that.

Him making you change your clothes also shows he was only thinking about his own needs and comfort, without any care for consent or your boundaries. Red flags all over. I know it hurts, but please try not to internalize it - his actions say way more about him than you.

My advice would be cut all contact. You don't want someone like that in your life. And if he ever tries contacting you again, tell a friend or trusted family member right away. You did nothing wrong - he's the problem, not you.

You're so worth someone who treats you with kindness, respect and cares about your pleasure as much as their own. Don't settle for less, sis! You're beautiful inside and out. This toe rag isn't worth another tear. Chin up - your special person is still out there waiting to worship you like a queen!

[ItsaMeMaik]

I don't think it was your fault. Maybe he's got a germ phobia. Daggers are more common than you think. When I was younger I had a woman who never wanted me to touch her, even during sex, not touching, only with a condom in and out. I couldn't deal with that. Don't worry 🙈

[Anonymous]

Gross honestly it's not you he is probably a germanophile. He is very afraid of germs! Pretend ones but still very afraid.

Id cry if he put on a glove! My BFF told me a story like this. He was so afraid to touch her wetness and never got naked.

[Asker]

Yes he won't kiss me and we've never had intercourse he has a daughter I wonder how that even came about!

[Opinion Owner]

Probably got drunk! Like how has he never kissed you but touched you?

I imagine she probably had to tie him up for his daughter!

I'd drop that red flag!

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂😂😂 Wow just leave that guy its hilarious tho.

Dont think you're dirty or otherwise he wouldn't even come over, he's just kinda special it seems. Maybe autism or some sort.