Did he not like me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I've a little asymmetrical face and i feel like i look better in mirror than irl because the pictures that's been taken are ugly to me. and I'm super insecure about it. so, yesterday i met this guy I've been online friends with. i kinda like him and from a friend I've heard he likes me too. he sometimes write poetry and sings me songs and all. things went well for months. we met, he was staring at me and it made me nervous lol. he hold so much eye contact and i was breaking it after 5sec or so. we went to a cat cafe so we spent time petting cats and talking then started to head home. he bought me a flower and talked a lot. he said he likes talking to me because he feels like its easier to talk to me than anyone else and blah blah. but my insecured a! ss been scared for every little things. even when he's busy or cannot talk i feel like he didn't like me after seeing me that's why he's not talking to me much.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo chill sis, don't get all up in your head like that! From the vibes it sounds like dude was definitely feeling you.

Eye contact like that don't lie - he was checkin' you out fosho. And bringing you a flower? That's smooooooth. Plus he said yourself you're easy to talk to.

Seems to me he likes your personality. Don't be stressin' too much about what the mirror says. Confidence is way more attractive. He was laughing and chatting with you all day right? So clearly your looks ain't a problem!

Maybe he was just tired after hanging or had other stuff pop up. I wouldn't read too deep yet sis, you barely met! Give it time before freakin' yoself out.

Chances are he's still feeling you, so just keep havin fun together whenever y'all link. And relaxxx girl! You bad no matter what the mirror says. This homie is lucky to kick it with ya!

[Asker]

gosh you're soo sweet! and yessss he's giving positive signs like he's even texting me when he's out with his hb and also the goodnight and goodmorning texts and all things!! looking great 😭

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw that's so awesome sis!! Those little good morning/night texts are definitely a good sign he's thinking about you. The fact that he's texting you when he's out with his buds too shows you're on his mind. Okay I take it back - I don't think he just likes you, I KNOW he likes you!

You should feel so good right now. It's always such a nice feeling when you meet someone online, then meet in real life and the vibes are even better. I'm so happy for you! Now just keep letting things progress naturally. Keep chatting, maybe suggest a casual second hang out soon. But don't stress - looks like this could be the start of something really great. You totally deserve it girl! Thanks for the update, I'm grinning so big for you right now. Stay golden sis!

[ohsheeT]

Yeah don't be so insecure I don't like any pictures that I take as a matter of fact even in school grade school high school I very very seldom we had my picture taken because I think I look completely different in a picture than I do in real life but don't read anything into anything he'll show you give him time if he likes you he's going to show you if you write music and poetry he's probably an introvert too

[Asker]

Not really an introvert but yes he was a little tired that day and now he's talking and texting a lot. we spend whole day chatting about stuff

[ohsheeT]

So did you get it all figured out

[NotTacocaT6969]

Calm down.


If he didn’t like you he never would’ve talked to you at all.


People have lives and can’t always be there to respond to messages right away.


There’s no sense in over-thinking it, jumping to conclusions and stressing yourself out.


Focus on something else for now. You’ll find out what’s going on with him sooner or later.

[Asker]

yes I should try focusing on something else. but also i can't stop thinking 😭

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Asker]

Nope? like, he didn't like me? or

[In_Trance]

Or... what?