Why would my coworker ask if im married or engaged?

[Anonymous]

A recent coworker left the job and asked me on his last day "You're engaged right?" "Or married" not even if I have a boyfriend or something. I've mentioned "my husband" to another co-worker when he was around so I figured he would know. Why would he ask this? He's never asked something this personal and I didn't think he would care to ever ask. Lol.

[spartan55]

You talked about your husband when he was around. Just because you eavesdrop doesn't mean everyone else done. He wasn't listening to you. I'm trying to figure out why the even matters to you? Cheap validation? Shocker

[Asker]

No, you moron. It's a small breakroom. It's not about eavesdropping, there were only 3 of us in there. Don't have to be rude. Are you always this toxic? Probably not getting laid enough. Take your hate elsewhere. by the way, I can tell what your level of education is and how low your IQ is, given how you tend to be nasty when replying rather than actually answering the question. Stupid!

[spartan55]

Like I said, he wasn't listening to you dumbass. Spare me your TikTok armchair buzzword psych assessment too. So low rent, but right on script... I get laid plenty. Come on over and watch anytime you want. 😜
You're just pissed because I outed you for wanting to step out on your marriage. I already answered your question the first time you posted this. When you repost a question that has already been answered every possible way, you get this.

[Asker]

Looks like my point just went over your head. No worries though. And nobody’s business whether I want to leave my marriage or not. Don’t get personal. Seems like you have a lot of time that all you do is spend your time on this website being nasty. Try to find a hobby dear and stay away from my posts from now on. K? Hope you have a better day! ✌🏻

[spartan55]

Whatever you say pink anon. You really think I'm going to do what you say?
I swear all of you dipshit anons use the SAME remedial level insults, do you pass a cheat sheet around? Because it's uncanny. The only one you left out was some comment about me being old. Maybe next time eh?
You weren't making any point. If you were it was only to yourself.
You want to be the office skank by being known as a cheater... go for it. You're right it is no one's business. Doesn't mean you aren't a gross skank for doing that.

[Asker]

Damn. Whatever is eating at you in your personal life or trauma you're going through... I hope it gets better. Seems like you're obviously jealous that I can get two men, and you can't get even one. I haven't cheated and won't in the future. Just wanted to get opinions on something, and you became so hateful. Lol. Don't worry; I will contact the administration to block you from my account if I can't do it myself.

[slatyb]

He wanted to date you. Guys -- if you want a date just ask for one. Don't ask whether a woman is single.

[spartan55]

Damn, he could have bagged him a married woman.

[Asker]

@spartan55 It's obvious you were cheated on or you experienced it in your family and are traumatized by it that's why you are so upset with my post, even though I haven't done anything that falls under the category of cheating.

[spartan55]

You literally haven't guessed one thing right about me. That's why you are just throwing shit out there about me having no idea what I'm about. Keep trying ya Jezebel.

[spartan55]

The fact that you wrote this post means you are willing to. You must think it's my second day here or something.

[Asker]

@spartan55 You're still here? Geez get a life LOL

[spartan55]

Your self-awareness is next level...😂😂😂

[ProbablyClueless]

Probably just curious so he figured he would ask you the question before leaving. I wouldn't read into something like that any deeper than that.

[In_Trance]

Because your coworker wanted to know if you're married or engaged