Hi. why does a guy coworker asked a girl when she will be getting married? Is it truly just a concern or he has secret crush on her?

[Anonymous]

A male coworker some time ago asked me about my relationship- if I will be getting married after he learns that I've been in relationship with my bae for 7 years. He then told me that he feels that he is the right person to tell me that because his age gap is near to me. I then responded that I didn't marry yet because of my parents' health conditions that I am very concerned about at the moment instead of my own relationship. He then smiles and say he too, think about his parents. What do you guys think? Girls are welcome to state your opinion too. Thank you in advance!

[Anonymous]

I don’t get the impression he has romantic interest, mainly because that is just such a generic follow up question, there’s no substance to it. On the other hand, why would you be asking this? Like are you not fully happy in your relationship or seeking outside attention? If you really love your man, I highly doubt you’d appreciate him wondering if some other woman has feelings for him. You’d be like why does that matter do you want her or something?

[virtualwasp]

It's normal, my friend always asks when we chat. He says aren't you married yet, I thought you would be by now

[AviatorTom]

His question is probably innocent. Maybe he's organizing the work gift for your wedding and he wants to know when they should give you the gift.

[Billlewis]

If it's a guy, you can be sure that he's angling for a date with her, etc.

[Asker]

Is it more obvious when he start to ignore other coworker infront of her purposely?

[Truthatanycost]

The better question is why do you care since you already have a boyfriend of 7 years...

[Alli39]

Sounds like he was just making conversation. You're probably reading into this way too much.

[spartan55]

Why does it matter? Stop being gross, you have a boyfriend, did you forget?

[Iron_Man]

Just talking