Why is my friends with benefits unable to let go of our situation?

[Anonymous]

I’m no longer interested in continuing things with him because I found someone that I’d like to pursue things with. I made it clear that I am done and I don’t want the distraction of this situation. I’ve blocked him on everything. I avoid him like the plague because whenever I run into him he desperately tries to get my attention, does the whole “can we talk?” thing which results in him trying to convince me to continue things, “can we still be friends, constantly looking me up on LinkedIn and TikTok. It’s to the point to where I’ve distanced myself from mutual friends because, I don’t want to deal with him.

[Anonymous]

He has feelings for you. He's not going to let it go easy. Plus he doesn't want somebody else having fun with you while he's sitting home. That's why Friends with benefits never work out well at the end

[spartan55]

He doesn't have feelings. He misses his free pie.

[Asker]

Yeah… this is the one time I agree with the person above. I wanted to date. He didn’t want a relationship. I moved on, now he is being annoying af…

[spartan55]

The one time... lol... maybe you should listen more. It's not my second day here.

[Asker]

Do you have to be a dickhead in everything you comment?

[spartan55]

Blame anyone but yourself, that's productive.

[MasterKS]

Kick him out he must have to understand its just friends with benefits!

[Asker]

He was the one that initiated this situation and said that he did not want a relationship, so I’m very surprised by this reaction. I thought that the point of these types of situations is that it’s easier to end things when you are ready to move on.

[MasterKS]

@asker dont you think he is fucking shitty person, deal with him with mind and trick, otherwise he be sticky!

[MasterKS]

@asker Thank you so much for MHO!

[PeachyPie93]

He is just a stupid child trying to keep a good thing going..

[spartan55]

Fwbs are great, aren't they?

[Asker]

It great you’re ready to move on and they can’t let go… 😩

[spartan55]

They can't do that unless you let them...'unable to let go'... yeah right.

[Asker]

What do you mean? I have him blocked. I told him very clearly that I was no longer interested in continuing things. I’ve encouraged him to pursue other women.

[spartan55]

You gave him free sex and you don't understand why he keeps hitting you up?

[Asker]

Yes, but no still means no. I’m now exclusive with another guy.

[spartan55]

Lol, why would he care about that? This is what so many (mostly women) don't understand about friends with benefits. It is fundamentally based on a lack of respect.

[spartan55]

So this guy is just impossible to block? Not buying it.

[Asker]

Did you miss the part where is clearly states that I blocked him? He is now approaching me in person.

[spartan55]

How is he looking you up on TikTok and LinkedIn if he is blocked?