Do men actually get jealous if a girl talks to another guy, or is that a myth? serious inquiries only?

[SnowBunny18]

[D_Bone_Steak]

We're not talking about normal talking though are we?

Look bitches... you want me out flirting with other women and women midgets in a flirtatious manner while you abstain from that sort of interaction and just get to watch? You like it when you try and call me out on it and I just gaslight the shit out of you that you're just jealous, paranoid, and possessive? Women... you want a man doing that to you? No? She's just a friend... that I eventually end up fucking.

If not? Then why the fuck would you do it yourself and not expect a man to feel the same way as yourself?

In short:

Egocentric: Focused on one's own perspective, sometimes to the exclusion of others.
Solipsistic: A deeper, more extreme version where one believes only their mind and experiences are certain or real.

Other than not accepting accountability... women have these issues.

There is reasons we instinctually don't trust that guy that pretends to be your "friend"

[D_Bone_Steak]

Look up "Mate Poaching" and then realize who's around you trying to do that. If you're man isn't a cuck or 100% stupid... it's red flags for him because he doesn't benefit from it at all. At least a pimp gets paid cash for it.

What confuses me is you women that want these exclusive relationships, push for it, and verbally get these men to agree to it, and then you just keep looking for better dick or entertain random penises that will give you attention.

Just another example of women demanding traditional men, but refusing to be traditional themselves.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Superb opinion right here.

[ManOnFire]

Yes this is very true. And it is one of the reasons why a girl can switch up on you and start acting coldly towards you when before she was all cool talking and laughing and whatnot with you. Some guy who likes her or is actually dating her either saw it or knows about him and he got jealous so he told her to stop talking to him. Many, many men are catty and effeminate like this because they fear a guy will steal his only option.

I can tell you for a fact as a guy that it's very real. And in my experience being black, if the girl's guy is non-black, the dudes will be jealous even more and do what he feels is cockblocking you. I personally have never tried to make any woman I was into stop talking to a guy. Instead I would just ask her about him and be okay with it unless I saw he was purposely trying to disrespect our relationship.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not a myth, they get jealous, but I think these men are a bit insecure. If you just 'talk' there shouldn't be a problem. Maybe he's shy, but because of that shyness he's not talking to you and someone else is.

[Shiprex]

why is the first excuse always that a man is "insecure"?
Self respect isn't something that men hoard and only expose when a relationship with someone is at stake. It's common decency and like points made above it's very easy for a woman to "upgrade" their status compared to a man. One of the feminine traits that seems to be toxic to women is that of being respectful of their partner and to put their feelings as paramount even above your own. Men have been doing this for generations.

[Ariesman81]

Jealous is the wrong word. Disappointed is more accurate. Depends on the stage of the relationship too. Talking... go for it. Dating... think twice cause I'm paying attention. Relationship... you have no reason to since I'm handling the Man's responsibilities. My woman should defer all masculine matters to me. And if she needs more masculine input... then I'll remove myself from the equation and let her find it.

[CVNT5]

If the girl is flirting with guy #1 and leading him on and then switches to random guy #2 then yes, guy #1 will get get angry because she basically lied to him and he had invested some time onto her and was being serious about the relationship.

[Billlewis]

Oh my God yes! But here's what's so strange about that -- just because you make us jealous doesn't mean we're going to be upset with you; for many, many guys, the quickest way to make us fall at your feet is to make us jealous... lol

[UnusualWeirdo]

I get jealous, I wish I didn't but being a guy I know what he's thinking, most of the time a guy talks to a girl because he has motives, he things he can get something or slide in as a side piece, it's rare when a guy honestly just wants to talk.

[RavVid]

If you seem to be showing interest in another man when you are in a serious relationship than it won't be appreciated just as you wouldn't appreciate him showing interest in another girl.

[Alex-Snow]

I don't. I think some guys may be insecure and may be like that. What have u noticed with your boyfriends? Message me if you want to chat about it.

[DryGermanGuy]

I guess as a teen or twen that happened, but most men grow out of that behavior.

[slatyb]

Some do. Avoid them. That's extremely controlling and will quickly become intolerable.

[DrPepper12]

Yes boys your age do. Authentic, confident, respectful men don't. If you're in a real supportive relationship you trust each other.

[ProbablyClueless]

We'll only get jealous if she's given us reason to worry

[jahaims]

A mature man will not get jealous. If his partner crosses a boundary/is disrespectful he will just move on.

[Luopio27]

If you are dating, make the boundaries clear. Never asume anything, talk it all ou before the relationship.

[Reijen]

Some men do, some don't.
I don't get why people on GAG ask these questions about a broad group of people, in this case, half the population.

[Shy_Steve]

Of course he does, It's a normal Human Reaction.

[msc545]

Many of us are relieved that you will become his problem and no longer be ours.

[spartan55]

I'm sure there are some guys who do.

[Kabluie]

Soft guys do, secure ones don't.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Depends on the person, I'm sure it exists

[Rohaan2020]

I do get jealous

[eagle1951]

some do