Why do some people mad at others when they have a prob?

[Anonymous]

I get it, he told me has a big issue regarding his business and family. So he's not in the mood etc.

But i dont get why would he act rude as hell towards me. Mad for no reason, shouting for no reason. Like, what the hell?💀 And he specifically do that only to me, but not to his other friend, so i can't get the logic behind it

why ME is the only ‘victim’?

[_Maya_]

Sounds like he is taking his frustrations with family and his business out on you and probably other people that don't deserve it. He could be overly stressed and that is the reason for his sharp attitude towards you. It doesn't make it right but that is the likely reason for it. If it were me and I really cared for him then I would tell him that we needed some space for him to figure out his issues and focus on them. That does two things. One is that he actually does get time to figure out and work through issues and the other thing it does is make him realize what he is missing out on while we have our separate space. At least that is the hope is that he realizes he wasn't treating me right and recognizes that.

[Asker]

I eventually talk to him about it, and to no avail. He still blame me for not being understanding and as if everything he did is wrong to me. I did give him enough space as i dont even talk to him now but yet again that become an issue as i dont show ‘concern/care’ to him💀

[_Maya_]

That is really messed up.