He said he surprised that I like him?

[Anonymous]

I don’t get what he means because I see him as a very attractive guy and sometimes he has mentioned that girls look at him or compliments him or checks him out. I don’t get it?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Looks aren't everything in love. Don't overthink much.
Looks can help u in attracting someone at first but personality help u to maintain that relation.
Maybe those girls are beautiful but he didn't feel any attraction towards them. He likes you coz of your personality. That's best!
Looks are what people see on the outside, and eventually those looks are going to fade. how hard u fight it and how much money u put into trying to look as young as u can, what’s left? Hopefully u'll still have your intellect, you personality, and your a
good and kind person. If you don’t develop what’s inside of you, then once your looks are gone, then you are left with nothing. If you think you will be loved just because you’re beautiful or handsome on the outside, you’re mistaken. That is shallow and a relationship like that won’t last. You have to be loved for what you are on the inside; otherwise, the two of you won’t be capable of sustaining a relationship where you will grow old together. Hope u get it💖

[ThebestIndian]

@myloveforuisinfinte Oh, just noticed your profile picture. That is a great skin tone and cleavage

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Oo thanks

[ThebestIndian]

What is your ethnicity?

[Asker]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it and I do get what you mean. I said I’ll still like him no matter what. Like no matter what. I always remind him all the time.

[Lliam]

He might think you are pretty enough to get any guy and, in comparing his appearance to others, thinks that you could get someone who looks better. Of course, when you compare yourself to others, you sell yourself short. But maybe that's what he is doing.

Or, he might think you are classier than him or something.

This reminded me of a girl I met in a PE bicycling course at community college when I was 19. The class went on some long rides and there was a really pretty girl who would talk to me. She said that she worked in the women's lingerie department of large, local department store.
After the semester ended, I went to find her. When I did, I was surprised to see her wearing a beautiful dress, heels, and makeup with her hair fixed up, and looked like a classy woman, not like the girl I knew from PE.
I couldn't go into the lingerie department to talk to her because I was a long haired teen dressed in jeans and a T-shirt. I would have stuck out like a sore thumb in the ladies' lingerie department and was afraid that I would get her in trouble with her supervisor.

So I left and didn't return. Even though she had been interested in me while bicycling, I psyched myself into thinking that she was out of my league.

I know, I was a dumb ass. But I was only 19.

[Avicenna]

He probably had no idea. Happens all the time.

[Asker]

Do you know what way he might’ve meant it? He complimented me on saying that I was beautiful and sexy. Then he said that.

[spartan55]

If this is the coworker guy how, would he know? Is he supposed to read your mind?