Why did my abuser coworker used to look at me deep at my face or eyes like he saw a gem inside me?

[Hurtandabusedd]

I cut him off and now we ignore each other. It hurt him but I had to do it cause he’s been Verbally abusing me repeatedly putting my looks down. He knew it wasn’t right.

I sometimes miss him but I know I should stay strong. But I remember how he used to stare at me and it was like he was seeing a gem inside me. I wonder what that meant.

[Nikki1989]

Do you miss an abuser?

For goodness’ sake!

[Intheclouds00]

Why are you romanticizing your abuse? Like Munchausen or something? Just curious.

[Hurtandabusedd]

That’s a simple google search away.

[Hurtandabusedd]

“Why do victims romanticize or go back to their abuser”. Good luck.

[Intheclouds00]

Not curious as to the fact that it happens frequently, more of a rhetorical question or a question I was hoping she would ask herself.

[spartan55]

Why does it matter? Did you report the guy to HR?

[In_Trance]

You seem like a real tree

[In_Trance]

Treat*

[Avicenna]

He wanted sex

[Hurtandabusedd]

Huh?